all im looking for is a guy who will treat me the same way i treat him... who's deserving for the time and attention i would give him... why is it so hard to find a relationship like this? is there any guy left that will pay attention to me and care for me the way i care for him???
2006-10-12 12:47:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are guys out there that will treat you the way you want to be treated but you have to STOP looking for them. They will come to you. Once you stop looking you will have more opportunities in you lap than what you will know what to do with. One thing is that you also need to be straight forward in what you want. I can tell you this, a "man" who understands and respects this will be willing to stay and see what happens, the ones who run scared will not be worth your time. Also, you want to be friends with him first. Friendship leads into a more
meaningful relationship.My favorite quote that a friend told me once is: "There are open door everywhere you go, if you do not peek inside then you will never know what you may miss. If the door is closed, knock to see who answers..."
2006-10-12 12:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when you treat a guy too nice and care about them too much rather wait until they care about you, guys sometimes gets turned off by that and don't like that. Always wait until the guy care and pay attention to you FIRST. Always let the guy make 1st move and be sure he really likes you before caring about him. Guys like girls when they receive the love they give girls. It makes them feel like a man. Then, they'll want to give you more attention & care....
2006-10-12 12:53:00 · answer #2 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey it takes time. I didnt find real love until 2 yrs ago,,and im 35....if you go looking for it,it will never come. Someone who is deserving of you will come along when you are least expecting it. Trust me. Dont rush things.. they will happen for you. And yes there are good men out there...you just havent found THE ONE yet.
2006-10-12 12:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bet....The great thing is...your looking for the right things...but thats also the bad news...great relationships are much harder to find , keep looking for just what you need ...The right guy will come around soon .
2006-10-12 12:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by itsjustme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are not many of those guys left out there...fortunately I got one before they all disappeared...most of the guys now a days are just plain a.s.s holes...but don't worry there are a few left
2006-10-12 12:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by ram_this911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah just give it some time and in the meantime oncentrate on you and loving your self
2006-10-12 12:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure there is, but you'll porbably never meet him.
2006-10-12 12:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah there are plenty of those guys
2006-10-12 12:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by Justin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is worng just follow your heart
2006-10-12 13:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by hayhay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here I am babe, just hit me up.
2006-10-12 12:50:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋