ok theres this guy i like and hes in 9th grade and i m in 8th. Do older guys in our age group go for younger girls? If so is it just to make-out or do they actually like u?
i m not the type that is prepaired 2 be doin things like makin out i dont wanna be pressured!!!Do u think thats all guys that age think about or could there be something more?help please!
2006-10-12 12:34:35 · 14 answers · asked by minnesota sweetheart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think they "the guys in your age group" care about ages
they want just a pretty girl could make out with em
2006-10-12 12:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is all guys think about and as you get older you will get wiser. If you are not ready to be making out then don't get involved with someone who is. They will pressure you. And just remember you are in charge of your own self so don't let anyone talk or pressure you into something your are not ready for. You have plenty of time for that stuff as you get older. Enjoy life and being a teenager.
2006-10-12 12:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by mccary555 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, guys that are older are usually after one thing. But they are good to have as friends. If they are looking out for you then they are good guys but if they are just bossing you around then you know you need to move on. you are young. don't even worry about guys. they will come and go. The best advice I ever got was that the one that is right for you will deal with you no matter what and will wait until you are ready to move forward
2006-10-12 12:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by ZetaMom06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea they go with younger gurlz all the time. if u see him as the type who u like to talk to he is funny and easy goin and u wanna go with him go ahead. however remember where u stand u should never let a guy force u do wat u don't want to do. if u bein pressure he is soooooooo not worth it, just remember gurl u young and u got plenty of time on ya hands. and no thats not all guys thought there are plenty of them that would suprise u of how much they can care for the girl they really like and cherish. remember through all this be urself never do something out of character.
2006-10-12 12:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by nina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it from a 21 year old. when i was in 8th grade there were plenty of guys who just wanted sex. at that age i wasn't ready for it. by the time i was in 9th grade i did start making out and going beyond the boundries of 1st and 2nd base. sex isn't the greatest part of being in a relationship. kids in highschool just don't know that b/c they haven't grown up. if i were you, having guy friends is great, flirting is fun, but just concintrate on getting through highschool and getting into college. don't rush yourself, you'll regret it forever.
2006-10-12 12:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you both are going into the wild hormone stag, beware. Even guys one year younger at your age can be kindof forceful in a relationship. One year gap does not mean anything.
2006-10-12 12:39:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want those pressures then dont date , just concentrate on your school work,, you ll have plenty of time for boys in the summer,, during the fall thru spring,, its all about school work and hard learning,, youll thank yourself in the long run ,, because it doesnt matter who you date,, if you have no education,, its gonna be very difficult in the real world,,,, Stick To The Books,,,,
2006-10-12 12:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by John C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really but most do but sum dont because sum r nice,lik my boyfriend who is a senior nd im a freshman nd he doesnt do nything to put pressure on me, but u should really kno him before u rush into things nd see how he reacts on things but if u do go wit him nd he puts pressure on u dont accept break it up nd get on wit ur life, well hope this helps ~uno~
2006-10-12 12:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by angela ayala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a Freshman and im w/ an 8th grader
2006-10-12 12:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by I Hate Liberals 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey wats up....
well as for ur wuestion some guys are actually alot different. personally i could not tell u if this guy likes u or if he just wants to make out n ****.. but wat i can say is that only u know wat type of guy he is so its like a 50/50 chance. of course their are guys who just want to make out n **** but their are nice guys out their too that actually like a girl for who they are n want to date... my girl is like way younger than me so yea take a chance if he tries to force u to do things than tell him ur not ready if he keeps trying to force u then leave him...
2006-10-12 12:46:20 · answer #10 · answered by pitbull 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋