wELL..iv stated my point many times here.. ya my spelling is baad!!!
if sum one can chat..mail .. !!! Okay ... i love him.. probably he loves me.. im married.. he getting married...we have had no sex/kiss.. sadly enough wehn i was lonely..sad... my hubby was neglecting me..this man(hubby's younger brother) got close to me ... 4 years ago. i stepped back realizing the sin i was commiting.... for 2.5 years we both fought tooth and nail..literally hated each other ....And..well unfortunately..6months back we had a RELAPSE ... emotinally .. though. my heart is not at peace ... i would like to talk it out in black and white befor he ties the knot . any suggestions... how to do the same???? Should i do it at all???
FYI>>>> we live under 1 roof .. forever ...!!!
2006-10-12 12:31:23 · 5 answers · asked by barley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thas what im scared of..blowing up onmy face ... but well..we have had our moments unfortunately ... stroking my cheek..hair ..vice versa..few things i cannot explain ..but ijust cannot live with this..i feel..seeinghimwiththis girl daily ... etcetc
2006-10-12 12:37:56 · update #1
Well.... he arranged marrying . i know imhatable.. i hope i can move on. Non of yu saying to ... confront ?
2006-10-12 12:40:03 · update #2
THATS exactly what i mean.. i dont want unresolved feelings wehnhis wife is there!!!!!!!! i need to start focussing on my life,
2006-10-12 12:47:07 · update #3
This is just my opinion. He is filling the emptiness left by your seemingly emotionally unavailable husband. Why don't you try rejuvenating the excitement and love between you and your husband rather than looking for a surrogate.
You are already married, and the brother is getting married. He deserves the right to try to make a life for himself with the woman he is marrying. I assume he loves her since he asked her to become his bride. All of this can only end badly and will cause ill feelings all the way around if you continue on your present course. What is there to talk about? Are you wanting to convince him not to marry? You are still married, and that tells me that there is still something in your heart for your husband. Let the man get married and leave him alone. He's your family, your husband's brother. What advice would you give someone else in the same predicament?
2006-10-12 12:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by Nani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously have feelings for this person or you wouldn't be asking the question. You need to sit down with this guy and talk things out with him first. Find out where you both stand and then make a decision from there. If you both want to be together then you have to talk to the other people involved and see what happens from there. If the feelings are there and you decide to ignore them it is going to be a problem that may start as a small irritation but it will grow into a major problem. If you talk to this guy and you both decide you do not want to pursue anything then as least if is resolved.
2006-10-12 19:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be very selfish of you to express your feelings for him, right before he is going to get married. Why make him think twice about a relationship he is in. You are married! Also if your husband is not making you happy then leave him, but don't tear apart the family because you cannot control your emotions. If those were my sons and you left one to be with the other I would hate you for causing my children not to be close anymore.
2006-10-12 19:37:03 · answer #3 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to forget about this you was married and he was in a relationship it was wrong and you need to let it go it's cheating and it's wrong move on
2006-10-12 19:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say anything as it could all blow up in your face. Forget him
2006-10-12 19:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋