2006-10-12 12:29:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i'm really sorry, i know what you're going through. i lost my grandma when i was 14, after she had lived with us for 2 years. just remember that your grandmother loved you and she's looking down on you from heaven right now. i hope you're comforted by that. i know it hurts a lot right now, but things will look better with time. just keep doing the things that you love to do, i think that's the best way you can honor your grandmother's memory.
2006-10-12 12:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 06:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by schnetter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a hospice Counselor so I have some experience in this. The important thing is to allow yourself to hurt. To feel horrible to cry and just be miserable. You may feel like this is just a dream and you will wake up. When we break a bone you need to feel pain for it to heal. Its the same way with any loss like the death of friend, grandma, pet or even a divorce.
The saying "time heals all wounds" is not true. We do not recover from loss effectively until we have mourned our loss. Time alone will no do it. Talk with your friends and family. Its OK to isolate for a short period of time but do not get in a rut. If you listen to yourself and feel the pain it will stop at some point. I just can't tell you when. Sometimes 3 months, sometime 1 year, sometimes 5 years. Most Likely less though.
Death the one thing that we all have to experience. Take care of yourself, and things will get better, trust me:)
2006-10-12 12:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by clearwatervike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my grandmother died, it felt like my world ended, she was my best friend. I went to a bereavement group to talk about it. Talking about your feelings helps alot. Also journalling your feelings down on paper is helpful too. Make a tribute to your grandmother, such as a scrapbook of your favourite pictures of her and letters and birthday cards she may have given you.
2006-10-12 13:37:41 · answer #4 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let me express my deepest empathy for your lose......I wish there were words I or anyone else could offer that would take your pain away, but that just isn't possible. All you can do is take everything one day at a time and one day you'll wake and find the pain is gone, replaced by the good memories you have of your grandmother. Good Luck and God bless always. (((CYBER HUG)))
2006-10-12 12:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by Daydream Believer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know like everyone before you, that the pain will eventually go away, but the memories will not go away. The best way to remember your granmother, is to pick one of the best traits that she possessed and make that your own. Memorialise her in the way you live your day to day life. Then when you remember her, it will not be with the overwhelming sadness you have now, but with a happiness of times gone by...
2006-10-12 12:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by mark2zephyr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey. i know your same feeling. my great grandmother died a couple of weeks ago. Just think about it this way, she is in a better place and one of these days you will get to be with her! Thats how I got over it!
2006-10-12 12:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by TCCgurl2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry to hear about your grandmother, but was she sick or in pain if so she is in a better place. I never remembered my grandparents they died before i got to know them, so in one way you are so lucky, Your heart will lighten up as time goes on. hang in there.
2006-10-12 12:34:49 · answer #8 · answered by backus13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right way to handle this, just give it time. My own experience of this situation is when my father died. It didn't seem real until they burial!
2006-10-12 13:07:35 · answer #9 · answered by Bo V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my grandfather died i didnt know what to do either! I was close to him but not really really cos i was quite young wen i found out i didnt even cry i felt rly bad i was sad obviously but just didn't know how to feel...jst let time pass and ull feel better
2006-10-12 12:32:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋