First you have to know my back ground: I am usally all like happy and stuff my friends used to call me vivacious *in other words really happy* But that is now lets go back a little further... When I was growing ^ my mom and dad ALWAYS fought... then I turned 10 the split up and I went to therpy *don't you dare say I need to go back he was crazy he talked about boiling cats in water*I don't see him any more *by my choice* Now I'm like 12 I'm in 7th grade and I have about 6 1/2 friends... how you ask? some of these people are 1/2 way my friend how bad is that? Well 2day @ lunch we got a new girl in our class from the Ukrain and nobody likes her she is nice... My so called BEST friend took my seat just so she wouldn't have to sit with her alright... So I had to sit with all the like ***PREPPY*** people *which I'm not, I stuck in the middle* Well that is the background.... but I have been the saddest person any of them have seen and the hatefulest one too!!!! I'm like sorry it's so long
2006-10-12 12:18:42 · 19 answers · asked by Iwanndanceintherain 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Alright I'll try and explain it better... without saying like as much.
I have had a f****** horrible childhood alright. then I basicly have no friends they all hate me and I'm trying to be nice to them they always start it I know better to start somthing with someone or I'll loose them No not death ways... I already started my . so that can be it or could it?? Well thanx 4 ur help!!!
2006-10-12 12:30:18 · update #1
I didn't mean to dump all these emotions on you but there is nobody to dump them out on at school or home so go to the internet!
2006-10-12 12:35:25 · update #2
It sounds like your depressed. Sit down and think about whats making you so sad.... and try to think about what you can do to fix it! Remember happiness is a inside job... in other words its up to you to make you happy... no one else can really do it for you... what can you do that will make you happy?? :)
2006-10-12 12:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by chrystal_lynn2002 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you find yourself in such a situation.. School for all kids is hard.. I give you props for befriending a new student. You are the bigger and better person to have step up when nobody else would to make someone else feel welcome. As far as your other so called friends they are being silly really. I find it imature of your so called best friend to do such a childish act. Taking a seat comeon now how old are they 2... Just keep reminding your self that one day when you are out of school all those friends that you had will no longer be the friends they once were.. I speak to you from having been there before. It is really hard to see now but trust it will happen. As for your sadness i think that you are sad that you may have to choose between some one you don't know at all and those you have been friendly with for a long time.
But if you are true to yourself and find that happy person again you will see that they will come around because they will miss you.
Now to your parents It seems best that they seperated but you can not blame who you are or how you think on your parents actions you are your own person and make your own choices remember that.
Good Luck i hope that it all works out for you....
2006-10-12 12:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by Mellisa C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there. You need to grow up and move on and get your own life. I'm not saying now, I mean like when you turn 18, etc. Until then just try to deal with it. You need very understanding and helpful people in your life who won't take a lot from you. That's hard to find. Sorry. Hang in there.
2006-10-12 12:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not sure what your problem is? BUT I can tell you, your 12 yrs old go outside and play. quit worrying about what other people think, they are mostly in mature anyways. Be nice to the new girl, how would you feel coming in to a new school and a new country and people were mean to you?
2006-10-12 12:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by sissy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Id have to agree. Ya gotta b ur own person. Do what u want/like to do, and dont let anyone tell u how to feel, or who ur friends r. If u think this new girl is a ok person, then hang w/her. Dont "not" like her just cuz other ppl dont!
2006-10-12 12:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by Tweetalette 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as quickly as there become a frog that become working a marathon and after 20 minutes of working he faces a river, so he stops and says to himself, I ought to end this race, how do i'm getting to the different area without drowning? So the frog says I genuinely have a clever thought!! i'm going to drink all of the water. So he drank it.. ("POP"!!!)
2016-10-19 07:15:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
midle school i meember htme days lol i had that problem in hs well i befrieded this girl in ms no one liked and my best friend said i dont like that girl but i am not gonna be a b**** to u cause u are my freind so ur freinds that you think r ur friend really are not they would try to be friends if you want to be friends with this new girl and u might be stressed out so ur not ur self hope u can understand whta i am trying ot say
2006-10-12 13:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by hot_temptrist420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like this new girl in school? If the answer is yes, then be friends with her. If your other friends get mad at you then they never really were your friends in the first place. You have to be true to yourself first and others will follow your lead. I hope I helped, good luck.
2006-10-12 12:39:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a hard childhood to. Not like yours, but some could argue possibly harder. Since you are nearing puberty, it seems like the world is out to get you. As I know, I tried to avoid that state. I tried to leave that section of the world and try to make everything as it was.
You have a really hard life, and I know what you are going through. I always loved to write. Little poems and books and short stories, anything. I also loved to dance, play basketball, art and tennis. I expressed myself in everything I did, but poetry stuck the most. Try to find something you are interested in, like a sport or something, and take a go at it!
Also, since I loved to write, I kept a journal. It is good for anyone to keep a journal, you especially. Write down your thoughts everyday or so. It may seem silly, but when you start a journal and you feel like the world is on your shoulders, your journal seems like your only friend. And the fun thing about it is that it is a secret,so you can write anything in it and not get patronized for it! It makes it feel good that you can depend on something to be there. Or it makes you feel good just knowing you have a place no-one else can go in. I loved it!
You may like to take up drawing like clothes and things like that. It's what my sister does and she loves it with a passion. Now she is pursuing a goal in the fashion industry.
My older sister loved dance. She wrote down the moves on a piece of paper so it looked like an actual production. Now she teaches dance.
I am pursuing a thousand dreams. I am trying to become a Marine Biologist and still write down in my journal and write poetry.
You can get through it, It just takes time. Open your mind, and see how you can express yourself. Also, crying in a corner can sometimes relieve pain. But knowing that the world holds one friend will help you. Your journal is the key to getting through this rough time!
Oh honey don't break down! You are right to dump this on us, we can help! Dumping emotions on your friends is bad anyway. That is what they are there for, but they don't always care. I dumped my life on my best friend and she didn't talk to me for six months! It's hard to go through this! I know!
Okay, try to make friends with this new girl. It is always hard for the new kid and even harder if you come from another country. You must help her along in school and help her know that even though she left her friends, you are going through something similar. All your friends left you. You can start on new ground and become friends. I found my best friend in 7 grade after my best friend didn't talk to me for that long of a time. Be patient with the world and become who you are! I really hope your childhood gets better! :)
2006-10-12 12:41:10 · answer #9 · answered by otter7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should make friends with the Ukranian girl. I know your life has been hard so far, but it can't be easy to be her right now, new to the country and with no friends and all... Be as kind as you can to her, and your sadness will go away, I promise!
2006-10-12 12:23:38 · answer #10 · answered by Peggy M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋