I like this one guy alot, he and i have talked about random stuff, played basketball for almost two hours and then all of the sudden he didn;t talk to me for like a week and a half. Now, he is talking to me again. Last night, I was saying goodbye to some of my friends and he runs up to me and makes a motion like he wants a hug too, but i didn't cuz he is being super confusing. Does he like me or am i thinking he does cuz that is what i want? Help please, and thanks in advance!
2006-10-12 12:17:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that he likes you but was confused about it for a week. maybe he needed to think some things over.or maybe he was just busy takin care of stuff. Maybe you should talk to him about it and tell him that he's confusing you. If you are ever going to have a relationship with him then you're going to have to learn to communicate sooner or later!!!
2006-10-12 12:22:24 · answer #1 · answered by Katie P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never be sure. What you can do is just go with the flow. If he wants a hug go give him. Do it like it's the most natural thing to do. Confuse him a little bit too. Haha. See what he does.
2006-10-12 19:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by Mary Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate guys like him. I don't know if its just us girl who are doing the over analyzing or they are just the most screwed up communicators.
But when situations like this happen and they do....a lot. Remember: if he was really into you...you would know. He would ask you...call you....want to see you. All the mixed messages are just that. He likes you but not enough for the effort...not enough to put himself out there. Sorry.
On a good note, there is someone out there that does feel your worth the effort...and trust me...you'll know. He'll make sure you know.
Hang in there.
2006-10-12 19:24:37 · answer #3 · answered by Pam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are making more into what ever attention he is giving you into more than it is. You like him, so you are trying to read into his actions, or lack of. Thing of it is, you are looking for the complicated when the answer is simplistic: He thinks of you as a friend and really doesnt pay attention to when he talks to you or when he doesnt.
2006-10-12 19:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him tell him. If you aren't afraid of losing a friendship, that is. Maybe he is just as confused as you are. If he wants a hug, give him one... what harm could a hug do? Give him your phone number. Make a move.
2006-10-12 19:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by ragamuffin_t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey likes you cause you talk about stuff and then he doesnt talk to you because he think he did something wrong maybe then he comes up to you cause he wants to be w/ you and cant stand not being w/ you and he doesnt want to hug you because he doesnt know if you like him but you hug him like unexpectedly
2006-10-12 19:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by RILEY S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel.. I`m dealing with a woman I`ve been playing games with for 2 years at work. It`s a beeatch. Play it real cool for your own sake. GIve him a hug.
2006-10-12 19:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by neanderstrat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he likes you but he just kinda didnt pay attention t oyou for a couple weeks cuz maybe he was doing something else...
2006-10-12 19:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could all depend on if you both hang out with the same kinda people cus guy are like that don't want his friend to know or he do's like you and had to think about what he wan'ts thats probably it....................
2006-10-12 19:24:10 · answer #9 · answered by mary s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he obviously likes you and is very shy
2006-10-12 19:19:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋