i am seeing someone and i really dont feel anything there and we been dating a month and he is trying to rush everything what is the best way to let him down easy and soon before it gets to far.
2006-10-12 12:09:48 · 17 answers · asked by psycholilblondegirl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him your not ready for a serious relationship yet. try dating once a week.
2006-10-12 12:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by kimberly k 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't let it go further that is the best way not to hurt him too bad is by not leading him on any further the longer you lead him on the more he will get more and more attached and then it will hurt more and for longer.
A month is not as serious as it seems right now and just be honest BUT STERN. Don't let him convice you that it could work or that you should do something more. You gave it a chance and it didn't work now hold steadfast to your words and he will accept!
2006-10-12 19:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by Beano4aReason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. I would let him know that he is moving to fast. He is moving to fast and is ready to define the relationship in a month. If you continue to see him without letting him know how you feel it want help matters. Tell him now and you can remain friends or set him up with someone that might be his type. I set one of my girls up with a guy he wasnt my type but they hit it off and theyre still together and we hang out sometimes.
2006-10-12 19:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up a good excuse. Tell him you are not ready for anything serious, you just want to be friends for now. Tell him it's because you are working on your career, or school, and don't have the time for a serious relationship so you just want to hang out and take it slow and not get into anything serious.
2006-10-12 19:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way is cold turkey, just tell him you and he are finished. That you don't feel anything for him and that he should take off. There is no way to get rid of him without causing some emotional upset.
2006-10-12 19:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by yours4xfun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you've enjoyed his company, but that your feelings for him are nothing more than friendship. Tell him you believe he wants more and that you do not have anything beyond friendship to offer him.
If that doesn't work, ask him, "Is that your face or did your neck puke." That will sever the ties immediately.
2006-10-12 19:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you don't see the relationship moving forward; and you want to stop seeing eachother!
Reassure him that nothing is wrong with him; that you just don't feel chemistry between the two of you!
Tell him you still want to be his friend!
2006-10-12 19:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by Lucky 7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy just say there's no compatiblity between you guys
if you feel something for him then PUT IT AWAY then this thing will never happen
it's better for the both of you -- I guess!
2006-10-12 19:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by axlrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I think you are really a nice person, but I'm just not interested in a romantic liaison with you. Thank you for your flattering attentions but, I really feel we should give each other a little space."
2006-10-12 19:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be like.....
okay (insert name here) after this last month i think you hav been movin to fast and we hav sorta lost are connection
this is nothing against you personal but my realtionships go alittle slower so i think we need to take a break or just be friends
i hope that helps & goood luck!!!
2006-10-12 19:12:30 · answer #10 · answered by Claire 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋