He jokes sexually with me and invited me to go somewhere with him. Can't tell if he's a friend or if he wants more. We've been friends for 2 years but he has never invited me out. At the same time he talks about the girlfriend. I do like him but should i just forget it?
2006-10-12 12:05:58 · 22 answers · asked by 4711 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget it! If you got with him, he'll only do the same behind your back. Save the heartache! And show him you're not easy too!
2006-10-12 12:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by ADE591 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he just likes flirting. It sounds like he really likes this girl that he is with but he doesn't neccessarily LOVE her. If he hasn't invited you out or any thing then i'd say that he is just lookin for some attention and likes to check you out. My advice would be to keep your distance. flirting is fine, but when it gets into the sexual comments you should definately change the convo. Just think what you would want another girl to do if that was your man and she was in the same situation???
2006-10-12 12:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by Katie P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, if he is a friend, then you need to confront him on how this makes you feel uncomfortable..he may have deeper feelings for you, so now is the time to find out..you probably know him better then his girlfriend..if you like him as far as a bf, then i think that you shouldn't be going places with him..as this may make you feel even more uncomfortable..2nd, lots of guys will start to talk that way to a girl just to see what her reaction will be..if you don't like it, tell him to stop..if he is really just a friend he will stop..
2006-10-12 12:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by connie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wants to have sex with you. If i were you i would confront him and ask him why he keeps coming on to you. Respect, the fact that he has a girlfriend. Eventhough, he flirts with you...you wouldn't like your boyfriend to be flirting sexually with his girl friends...right?
2006-10-12 12:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by Yessenia A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me he just wants a booty call. He wants to have the advantage of having a gf and a friend with benefits.
2006-10-12 12:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by Ambegurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend yes. You can always be friends. Who knows what the future brings.
2006-10-12 12:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by Good Grief 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants sex, obviously. Don't let him make those kinds of jokes to you - you're a lady! And if he asks you out again, tell him no. Ahhh..... life can be so simple!
2006-10-12 12:09:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. A guy that disrespects his current girlfriend like this is no guy to ponder about.
2006-10-12 12:07:50 · answer #8 · answered by A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him > He is a tom cat
2006-10-12 12:08:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not the kind of guy that will treat you well. He will cheat on you too. That is a fact.
2006-10-12 12:16:12 · answer #10 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋