my gf said to me that she is breaking up with me because i talk to much about working out and being healthy I said i would stop but she says she dosent want to be around me anymore, i didint want to miss her but now i do i really do i just get that feeling like i have lost something
2006-10-12 12:04:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what can i do to show her i care
2006-10-12 12:08:07 · update #1
we have been going out for 3 weeks
2006-10-12 12:10:41 · update #2
I think that is a sad excuse to break up with you for. I think it is fine that you want to be healthy.
It is natural for you to go through the sadness. It is part of the grieving process. I don't know how long you spent with her, but when you are with someone for a while, you get use to them and you care about them. It is perfectly normal. It will pass. You will have someone that will come along that God has in store for you. It is OK to have those feelings for now. Next week, you will feel better and then they will fade and hopefully you will have some fond memories. Here is a hug for you.
2006-10-12 12:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie I think she might have been a bit insecure and when you talked about those things she felt bad about her self. Girls have got so much pressure on what they are meant to be and she must have issues. I have seen the most beautiful girls say that they were not pretty enough. I know it is hard to understand. I dont really think it is the same for boys.
Maybe you could do something really lovely for her darling to make her feel good and reconsider her insecurities.
Send her a love letter telling her how beautiful she is and the inner qualities she has that you love.
But maybe you need to ask yourself this. Is outer beauty more important than inner beauty?
This migh just be an oppurtunity for you and her to talk about what you value in yourself and others. what do you admire and why.
Good luck
2006-10-12 19:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by alilovespete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up happens and it sucks. It sounds like you're young (I'm guessing high school). You'll go through a lot of junk like this until you meet the right one. Take it one day at a time, and what the heck, focus on working out and being healthy. It'll make you look great, feel great and attract new mates!
2006-10-12 19:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um you did lose somthing..
Maybe a somone you loved
In my opion i think that was very pety..and stupid to break up with you over that i mean i think it was another reason because that was a minor reason that could be worked out..i think the best thing to do is give it time ..
time is always the best answer ..you shouldnt try to get back with her..why would you want to be with somone who dont appreciate you. if you like talking about your healthiness then she should appreciate you and your healthiness so your "ex" has some issues just give it time i promise you'll be fine
2006-10-12 19:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by becca . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this can't be the real reason she is breaking up with you. she has to be lying about the reason. sounds like she just doesn't want to date you and couldnt think of a reason why so she made up some reason why, she probably likes another guy...anyway sounds like you are better off without her. just keep telling yourself that you are better off without her and maybe look for someone that has the same interests as you.
2006-10-12 19:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by my101201cutiepie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she is the one who is messing up. Working out and living healthy are great things to do. Sounds like she is probably doing something that she shouldn't and you probably make her feel guilty everytime she is around you.
Your heart will mend and you will find someone who will appreciate you for you.
2006-10-12 19:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by kitt_kattkitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there's more to it than that. she's got a lame execuse to break up with you, nothing is wrong talking about being healthy and working out. Go out and meat other girls, you don't need someone like that in your life
2006-10-12 19:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did lose something that is why you want to cry! BO- who Give her a big ol hug and kiss! Keep trying to be healthy-in the end that is all we have anyway!
2006-10-12 19:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Aww... I hate to say it, but if that was the reason she told you she was breaking up with you... she was probably lying... I'm sure it goes deeper than that. (unless your like obsessively nonstop talking about it and annoying the crap out of her ... or else she likes fat guys)
2006-10-12 19:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this, but she sounds mean. You don't need her. Find someone else who shares in your hobbies and interests. Girls can be so cruel. I'm sorry. =)
2006-10-12 19:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by Chelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋