who I used to pretend. Well she did not want anything with me, and I get a new gf. Now she is totally jealous and even call me one day and told me that she is romantically complicated, but she would really like to have a relationship with me. She says she likes the way I treated her, what she feels when we get out and now that I'm not pursuing her anymore, she misses me and realize that she really likes me.
My question is: why do women act like that, and when all is lost, they try to catch up? Why?
2006-10-12 12:04:17 · 19 answers · asked by Carlos A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You mentioned the reason , you took another gf , now she wants you !
Look !
They are like shadows , you run after , she runs away !
You run away , she runs after !
2006-10-12 12:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maby cause she has feelings for you and seeing you with someone else makes her jelious, if she treated you badly then dont go back out with her.NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THIS!!! I PROMISE YOU. You need to be with someone you are sure of and that will not play mind games. Iv'e been with a guy for 4 years and he has dumped me and played with my head twice in 4 yrs. So not only women are like this. When someone loses something they love or really like, they finally realize how much they will miss it...that's just what she is doing.
2006-10-12 12:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by sogullablegurly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun she doesn't want you she wants your attention she is obviously emotionally unstable and want to hold on to something that's not there. Stay with your current girl and treat her like a princess.
Not all women act like this. Some are just in it for the compliments.
2006-10-12 12:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by Intellectual Paige 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying something like 'you don't know what you've got until it's gone' or 'the grass is always greener...'. Eventually you realize what you had was what you really needed or wanted. I think guys do the same thing too...
2006-10-12 12:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
women like the thrill of liking a guy who is in a relationship. Maybe, she realized what she could have had.
2006-10-12 12:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by Yessenia A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We act like that because we like the chase. Trust me, when you're single again, she'll be over it. We just want to know that we are more important to someone else. It's lame, I know. It's validates ourselves if we can get you to give up something or someone for us.
2006-10-12 12:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by dil7827 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's just girls, I've seen this with guys too. Some people don't appreciate anything or anyone until it's gone. If you go back to dating her, she won't "miss" you anymore and you'll wind up back where you started.
2006-10-12 12:09:39 · answer #7 · answered by sjbluebelle 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesnt love you, but she wants someone to love her, maybe bc she lost her bf or is unhappy?
we do that as a way to feel loved. maybe it was wrong timing for the both of you.
PS: not all women act like that- most do, but not all
2006-10-12 12:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by Gale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women just like the idea that a man likes them even if she has no interest at all in the man. they like attention basically. so if you give that attention to someone else they may want to get it back.
2006-10-12 12:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by my101201cutiepie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i girls can be complicated... but that girl has issues
when you liked her she dibs you and if any other girl trys to ruin that she wants you back...... she sounds like a control freak...
i say you just forget about her and concentrate on ur new gf..
need anythan else email me
2006-10-12 12:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by Claire 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋