They are still going out. What should I do? I dont want him toget hurt. His girlfriend is also my best friend. She told me. I told him because i didnt want him to get hurt. What should Kyler do?
2006-10-12 11:25:45 · 15 answers · asked by Kelly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me add something, he already nos. And he wants to no what to do.
2006-10-12 11:32:13 · update #1
Basically I think in this type of situation, your friend can only do two things. One is to breakoff with the girl while the other is carry on waiting until the girl made a decision.
My personal view is that it is good to breakoff with the girl now rather than wait for her to made the decision. If this type of relationship carry on dragging, at the end of the day it is the one who lose out going to be suffered. Sometimes it is better to made a clean break at this moment rather let the relationship carry on dragging. Well I would suggest that yo should advice your friend to think over carefully on the relationship and made a decision fast.
2006-10-12 14:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
owh chris i know how u felt..Instead of telling u to get over this feeling, i want to advise u to just be yourself. Try and ask a little bout this guy, and see what she likes so much about him. The most important thing is just be yourself, cuz that's what she's attracted to in the first place. I understand ur jealousy but never ever let it get between u n ur gurl. If not, she's gonna think that ur not worth it anyway. But keep on ur feet, what i mean is keep updating on ur gf's activity, and maybe ask ur friends or smwan u trust to keep an eye on them. Good luck!
2016-03-28 06:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have minded your own business but it's to late for that.. So what he should do is ask her if she is having doubts about the relationship and if she wants out, or he can let her go and if it's meant to be she'll come back....
Are you sure you don't want Kyler for yourself ????
2006-10-12 11:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
inform him, u dont wont him to be a wreck when he finds out and its too late, better that he knows of it now and comes off it than to have a broken heart later. and if he comes to know that u have not informed him after knowing of it, then ur friendship would also hurt him. its better to be loyal to him as a friend, than to be loyal to your girlfriend who is cheating him in the name of love. do justice and save a heartbreak before its too late. be sure to prepare him for the shock and break the news slowly. handle the situation with a lot of care. God bless.
if he already knows then he better dump her now before its too late. not that there are no good girls around. he'll find someone better.............
2006-10-12 11:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay as far out of it as you can. Eventually these situations always come out. No matter what someone will be hurt, it's better if you just leave it alone. You won't be caught between two friends, you can just offer support when it all caves in.
2006-10-12 11:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to risk losing both friends...
You pull her aside and say, "Don't play him for a fool, he's too good a friend..." Take up with the other guy or drop him all together.
2006-10-12 11:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him your advise, stay out and mind your own business. Why ? because even our parents cannot interfer with their own children mixing with friends or love relationship, thus ask yourself; who are you ?
2006-10-12 15:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i am reading your statement correctly then i am assuming that she is still seeing her ex and your friend, if this is correct just nod your head twice. if no just nod once. your friend needs to get rid of your other friend if his g/f is still seeing her old b/f. that is just wrong, tell your buddy to just move on and find someone else.
2006-10-12 11:31:49 · answer #8 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if hes gona get hurt. Just tell him!
Why is it so hard for people like you to make these decisions!?
2006-10-12 11:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by J1ZZ IN MY PANTS 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would def. tell him
Unfortunatley the truth does hurt sometimes but you gotta face that fact.
Better you tell him now than wait til he finds out for himself it would probably hurt him more.
2006-10-12 11:30:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋