2006-10-12 11:15:21 · 20 answers · asked by twinkletoes7474 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
O.K, seriously I have no idea. If you really loved him then you wouldn't have cheated. You know, I think that's really stupid. If he really loves you and you did that to him, I can just say that you have no heart. You already killed him just by cheating on him. I think he should find someone who is worthy of him because you are not.
2006-10-12 11:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by Diabla 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let me start off by saying you're an ASSHOLE!!! but now that that's clear, what you have to do is be honest with him. I've been cheated on twice. Once by my last girlfriend and once by my current girlfriend. The only way I found out my last one did is because her sister ratted her out and how I found out my current girlfriend did, we went to a party and she got drunk and started crying. I asked her what was wrong and she admitted to cheating on me. You owe it to him to tell him what you did. I forgave my girlfriend because.. well... that's just me. I can't stay mad for long. If you truly love him, you'll tell him in person and in private. But whether or not he stays with you depends on how much he loves you. If he really loves you, it will crush him even more, but chances are he'll stay with you. Good luck. Just remember though, if he does leave you, you completely deserve it.
2006-10-12 18:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by HeartBreakAgony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i cheated on my ex i told him right after i did it. i felt absolutely horrible for doing and a week later he forgave and we were together for 3 years. the best thing to do is tell him. dont do it infront of anyone. if your sinsere and tell him everything and then tell him how bad you felt afterward(if you did feel bad) he'll either leave you then and there, or he'll give you another chance. but you should have told him right after it happened. and tell him everything involved, like if you were drinking or on drugs at the time. but still you shouldnt have done that.
2006-10-12 18:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by blu3_p1x1_st1x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Believe me it sucks, and for all those reading who think you shouldn't have done it, yeah prob right, but we do these things for a reason, it doesn't always make us cheap or sl_ts!
Be opn and honest with him, tell him exactly why you did it, and take it from there. If you want any kind of long term relationship with him you need the honesty, but he may well just throw it right back in your face.
2006-10-12 18:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is really no way to let a person know that you cheated on him lightly, his feelings are going to hurt no matter what because he has feelings for you, how would you feel if he did that to you? just hope for the best that he will still want to make things work!
2006-10-12 18:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by slai171 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling him will kill him. Don't cheat on him. If it's that bad that you have to cheat, do the decent thing and leave him first.
2006-10-12 18:17:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to tell him? Do you want to hurt him? Do you feel guilty? Telling him is not the way to assuage your guilt.
If you are vowing to yourself never to repeat this mistake, then your transgression should be YOUR burden, not his.
Your wanting to tell him means that maybe you want to be punished.
Perhaps you are not ready for a mature, exclusive relationship.
2006-10-12 18:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by Holly T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already killed him by cheating on him...
You have to be up front and honest, obviously you don't love him, or else you wouldn't have cheated...
If you didn't want this to happen, you probably shouldn't have cheated
2006-10-12 18:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by dorf2004 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you telling him? What is the point? Dont tell him for crying out loud! You are only going to upset him and he is going to think you are a whore.
2006-10-12 18:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm put the gun away before telling him?
there isn't any way to do that.
first you need to decide if he really needs to know. why are you telling him? is it because you are going to break up? or is it just to make YOU feel better. if its just to make YOU feel better then don't do it. While YOU may feel better he won't. If you can't live with it.. then break up.
2006-10-12 18:17:59 · answer #10 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋