This girl I'm seeing asked me if I think this other girl in physics class is prettier than her. The real answer was yes but What am I supposed to say?
2006-10-12 11:11:43 · 57 answers · asked by JS 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say nothing. Change the subject. There is no right answer. If you do answer, the followup question/statement will be your demise.
2006-10-12 11:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by dirftwood22 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Since you're seeing this girl, you have to tell her that she is much prettier than the other girl in your physics class. I know it sounds really wrong to lie to her, but you know what would happen if you didn't! Your girlfriend maybe knows inwardly that that other girl is prettier than she is, and just wants to be reassured from you that she is prettier and that you much prefer her. She might have self image/ security issues that make her feel threatened by anyone "better" than her or who any girl that you would want to be with more than her (regardless if it is true or not). So just let her know that she is the most beautiful girl in your life and she'll feel a lot better. Best of luck!
2006-10-12 11:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by jennabeanski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she pretty? sure.
Is she prettier than her? She may be to some guys but not to me.
Thats if you want to lie to keep her - note you will always have to lie to her in the future. Or you could try the straight forward approach:
Is she prettier than her? why ask me that? Thats like asking me if a dress makes you look fat. Its a no win question. If I say no you will say I'm lieing so I'm screwed. If I say yes then you will be pissed off so I'm screwed. how bout this.. do YOU think she is prettier than YOU? and if so.. why? but really why are you comparing yourself to her for? I'm not going out with her I'm going out with YOU! < then give her a big kiss>
2006-10-12 11:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This question will get you into all kinds of trouble depend on how you answer it. Just say, "Yes, I think she's pretty but looks are second in my book to personality and you have a beautiful personality!"
2006-10-12 11:15:55 · answer #4 · answered by Nebby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her "Honey, lot of girls are pretty, including you, but you are the one I am most attracted to...the one I want to be with." And make sure you buy her some sort of flowers or candy a day or 2 after that for no reason.
2006-10-12 11:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girls are all like that, they want to hear that they are prettier than others but they also want to know the truth. ask her what she think. if you lie you'll be in trouble but if you tell the truth you'll also be in a mess. but if you don't like the girl then just tell her the truth, if you're looking forward for a date with her then always compliment her.
2006-10-12 11:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by birdhouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooh she is setting you up! She is trying to see would you knock her bootz. You are supposed to tell her the truth that she is pretty and why you are attracted to her. BUT, reassure your girlfriend why you chose her to be with and not to feel insecure about your relationship. Try to quickly change the subject and talk about you and her but never skip the answer. Please take it from a female. Good Luck!
2006-10-12 11:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by Still_21_nheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
K just for the record i hope you told her no! Any girl who asks you this is looking for some sort of compliment. She probably is jealous of that girl and wants a good looking guy to tell her she is pretty to.
2006-10-12 11:17:07 · answer #8 · answered by Tinkerbelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate lying, but you have got to tell her no, tell your girlfriend that she is more beautiful "to you". It's okay to admit the other girl is pretty, but make sure your girlfriend knows how much prettier she is (you might want to throw in how much sweeter and funnier your gf is, too).
2006-10-12 11:16:37 · answer #9 · answered by remmymarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, I've done that to my boyfriend before... except it's with models on TV commercials. I'll say, "do you think she's hot?" and he'll say "hell yeah." Then he'll laugh, and tell me "but she's got nothing on you." It doesn't matter if it's the prettiest girl in the whole world... your girl is always more gorgeous.
2006-10-12 11:18:05 · answer #10 · answered by deepwaters05 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm.... tricky... but HAVE NO FEAR! If you want one of them you like tell the one who is talking to you that their prettier. Or you cant just say "OH it is so hard to chose you both are pretty!" then that should keep them away long enough.
2006-10-12 11:17:55 · answer #11 · answered by ▐▀▀▼▀▀▌ ► Randy ◄ ▐▄▄▲▄▄▌ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋