...or for a relationship - recently came out of one....but then why is it that i want someone even though i'm not ready?....its like i want it now - but i don't really want it at all!!....maybe i miss the good bits of a relationship - but not the bad bits? Maybe i want the good bits - without the bad bits ( i don't mean perfection ) but the bad bits were REALLY bad - so i don't want that again! So - i'm not ready for another relationship - but i still want someone...maybe i'm just being impatient?....or scared to enter another relationship?
Or just want a decent guy RIGHT NOW!....no - too scared...wanna be free....but still want someone!!!!! help!!!!!!!!
2006-10-12 11:08:53 · 13 answers · asked by chandra 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your a girl .. u want it all..
Dr BAd
2006-10-12 12:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this feeling so well. Maybe you learnt so much from your last relationship and you are ready for the next step. I think you are ready but you need to write a list on what you want. You can still be free but involved in a relationship. Goodluck.
2006-10-12 11:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by alilovespete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no such thing as Mr right or miss right,its all to do with treating someone in a respectable way,remember all we are,are simple human beings,with plenty of flaws...a relationship is based on accepting each others flaws and making the best of what you have...word of warning every relationship has an expiry date,accept when its over and move on...never ever go back . good luck Hun x
2006-10-12 12:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Mr right popped up and you ran you will spend a long time waiting.. or settle for a wife beater/cheater
2006-10-12 11:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know a guy first b4 you start a relationship with them dont rush in to it and you will find its alot easier cause if you just date a guy with out knowing the mr right then it could turn out to b your worst moment dont go for looks
2006-10-12 11:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, sometime the wanting is much better than the getting.
I read somewhere once that:
"the secret of true happiness is to admire without desiring"
2006-10-12 11:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by Drummer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax, just tell him you are not ready, but still keep the relationship. guys will wait, if he really loves you. But makes sure don't loose him cause its hard to find a good one. you might get dissapointed. goodluck!
2006-10-12 11:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u think u should settle down. Just keep being player. U will know when u need to settle down.
2006-10-12 11:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is Mr Right he will wait girl and you will end up happy!
2006-10-12 11:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself: Does the pain outweigh the pleasure?
2006-10-12 11:12:28 · answer #10 · answered by Saffernellie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋