Are they that afraid to talk to people? Chill out, it's only another person, just like you...right? Or are they trying to get dates with aliens and ax murders and stuff?
2006-10-12 11:04:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can't they just be themselves? Are they that insecure? If so, what makes them think that someone would be interested in them?
2006-10-12 11:13:54 · update #1
Mainly, the person they are finding attractive is too important to them, so they are afraid being unsuccessful and rejected. Nothing else.
2006-10-12 11:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anno Domini 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dated a lady once that invited me to her apartment. When I got there, she had candles burning everywhere and Voodoo dolls in each corner. My jaw dropped in awe and fear. Then she cuddled up next to me and ask me if I was scared and I say"no".
She then said she wanted to make love right there on the floor.
All I can remember is looking up when I had an orgasm and that Voodoo doll staring at me.
To this day, I wonder what someone else might have done, but but I think she put a spell on me because every time I have an orgasm all I think about is that Voodoo doll/ H E L P....ugh
2006-10-12 18:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care, its the scariest thing there is. Cuz so much is at stake. If you don't care it doesn't matter. If you do it does. People are fragile, thats why it matters so much. Its everything. Yet, if we lose, we still have to function somehow. I guess Im becoming coldr and harder as I age but it doesn't suit me. If I don't find her within ten years or so, I know I will be checkin out, her or me I think.
2006-10-12 19:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe they don't know how to go up to someone. maybe they need some different ideas on how to do it
2006-10-12 18:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by Stacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋