I'm a beautiful, talented, amazing chick, and I've worked really hard on myself. So what's the deal?
2006-10-12 11:03:02 · 10 answers · asked by mlk1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because 99% of men are perfect @ssholes, the rest have hemoroids...
Seriously though...it mostly because guys like that tend to gravitate towards women that they know are better than them in an effort to make themseloves more important by dating somene actually WORTH dating, then trying to make is seem like they are the ones in control and breaking down the girl in order to build thme sllves up. Most are still operating under the fallacy that it should be the man in charge at all times and in all things...they don't have a clue that relationshps are a partnership, it isn't about control, it's about trust, understanding, communication, not about who can amke who do what; it isn't about looking cool for their friends, and it isn't about getting their way all the time. It's about people taking care of each other, its about candle light, sappy sad movies, romantics walks...stuff like that...its about love and being loved...it's about....well you get the idea....
2006-10-12 11:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by kveldulfgondlir 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the deal, you are going to find that the d-bag guys are going to flock to you.
All they want is the beautiful girls with the nice bodies, and to get some, and brag about it with their buddies.
However, your problem is that you aren't looking in the right spots. Good guys aren't hard to find, unless you are looking in the wrong places, and going with where they shop, and how good looking they are. Try looking deeper into their personality (not saying you don't). However, the guys that you are referring to are going to flock to you, try looking for the guy that is keeping his distance, are pushing himself away from the crowd. Thats where you would find a good guy because he knows he could never have a chance with a beautiful girl.
2006-10-12 11:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by dorf2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The really nice guys might be put off by your attractiveness. And the very hot ***holes are used to moving in on pretty girls.
Try going to places where nice guys hang out - groups with similar interests to yours (hiking clubs, etc) and avoiding the "meat market" - bars, dance halls, and strip clubs near military bases.
2006-10-12 11:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by Jim P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club! Maybe try loking at a diff type of guy to normal?
Sorry can't help more, if I had the answer I wouldn't be in the same boat, I'd be stupidly rich, and with a decent guy. : (
2006-10-12 11:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya on this one lol I'm a model and I attract all the arshole guys maybe you're trying too hard??? Try something different
2006-10-12 11:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't learning from the mistakes of the past and falling for the same type of guy. Reflect and make alterations.
2006-10-12 11:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by eehco 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should change where your hanging out or just your total association of people. i'm sure your amazing looking now, but that is only part of a change...
Good luck!
2006-10-12 11:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're looking in the wrong places.
2006-10-12 11:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let meet each other to see how it is?
2006-10-12 11:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by petito10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a hole is a hole
2006-10-12 11:24:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋