okay well i met n hung out with this one guy at this carnival thing over the summer.. we really connected, you know? and later, i found out that he goes to my school!.. good news right? haha anyways well i see him once in a while in the halls and he'll stop to talk to me or hug me when he sees me n then i'd walk him to his class.. i really like him (if u havent already caught on ;) ) lol and well sweetest day is coming up. and in our school, you could send a person a rose for sweetest day which comes with a letter.. the thing is first of all i dont know whether or not i should send him one.. secondly, if i DO decide to send him one, what should i write in the letter?? pleasee help!! im so clueless about what to do because i dont want to seem too forward, you know? but then again i dont want thsi opportunity to pass me by lol cuz i really liek him and want him to know it (btw, hes 2 yrs older than me, and has brot it up twice alrady in a conversation.)
2006-10-12 11:02:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
another thing dats comin up a lot.. the whole mushy gushy love letter thing? i wanna avoid that .. completely lol. n like one a the responses i got said , that a rose would be a lil corny or cheesy to give to a guy is somethign that totally crossed my mind while thinking about it . thats probably the thing holding me back from sending him one...
2006-10-12 11:14:29 · update #1
go ahead and send him one just write I've been thinking about you and maybe we can do something this weekend give me a call.
2006-10-12 11:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... in my opinion.... he is the man... he should be the one sending you a rose with a letter. You don't want to seem too desperate. But then again... if you really like this guy... then you just need to tell him. I would just tell him. Tell him how you're feeling about him and ask him if he's feeling the same. All of the guys I know don't like to get roses. It's just set in stone that girls get roses, not guys. His friends might make fun him.... ect. I wouldn't send him a rose if it was me. Try just writing him a letter... hopefully you will get a rose & letter from him. If you do get a rose/letter from him, then give him your letter that you wrote. Date your letter, and tell him in the letter that you were thinking of sending him something too, but thought that a "rose" wouldn't be a good idea. Well.. good luck.... hope all turns out good for you. Bye
2006-10-12 11:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not just write that you like him and that you would like to see him out side school so you can get to know each other on a more personal level. after all like you said why let the perfect chance escape you . If he has a problem with your age difference he will just say so ,the only thing you have to lose is a bit of face with those about you . (if they say a word you can say at least you tried more than they do)
nothing ventured nothing gained right
2006-10-12 11:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
K first of all age doesnt matter. If you like him send him a not and rose. All you have to say is "hope you have the sweetest day today" and sign your name. It doesnt have to be mushy lovey dovey stuff just a simple note. He must like you to or he wouldnt stop and talk to you or hug you when he see's you. Good Luck and have a sweet day!!
2006-10-12 11:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by Tinkerbelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you lke hm and ak him to give the relationship a try.
2006-10-12 11:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by hawaiicatlynblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋