My boyfriend and i have been together for one year. We love each other. he cares for me and always there for me. but he curses at me, yell at me and hit me twice which i did not like. i told him to stop disrespecting me or i'll leave, he continues to do so i think he thinks i don't have the heart to leave him, should i leave or stay with me. but i really love him. I can't see a future with a man who hits me and disrespecting me. I wrote him a letter saying that we should break up. he did not get the letter yet. but i want to let him know if he doesn't change i'm leaving for ever. was i wrong for writing that letter.
2006-10-12 10:53:46 · 11 answers · asked by nedjine05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no matter what your bf mustn't hit you at all ! once already warrant you to leave n he did it twice !! you said you both love each others but i don't think so, he definitely don't ! n he doesn't deserved to be love at all !
Yes, hitting you mean no respect for you! just DUMP him since there are so many men out there whom i think are much more better n have respects for ladies !
Before you fall deeper into this mess of relationship, be firm n leave, you have such a bright n beautiful future await you without him bothering you ! cheer !
2006-10-12 11:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by ng 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to put yourself and your future child through that kind of life ??? You need to leave. He will probably apologize in order to get you back, but don't expect him to change without therapy. He may even threaten you, so be prepared. These situatations can turn extremely violent. Put some distance between the two of you. Maybe your family can help with that one or you might have to go to the police. Good luck.
2006-10-12 11:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't left yet.... What do you want a hospital stay from an abusive punk like your hopefully soon to be ex B/F...
He doesn't love or respect you. If he did, he wouldn't raise a hand in your direction...
LEAVE... Go find a REAL man that will love you...
2006-10-12 10:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him if hes hitting you then he dosen't deserve you no man should ever raise there hand to a woman. It will only get worse get out now before it dose. I no you r probaby scared of what might happen but it will get worse.
2006-10-12 10:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by steven r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
You should have left instead.
Why would you want to be with someone who hits you?
Why?
Is it because you think you deserve it?
You don't.
Try this. when he leaves for work tomorrow pack up and leave. don't leave a note, don't tell him where you are going, just leave.
believe me.. in 6 months you will understand why you should have left earlier.
2006-10-12 10:58:54 · answer #5 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE!!!!! Been there done that. Never going there again. No man should ever lay a hand on a woman. THere are beter men out there.
2006-10-12 10:55:45 · answer #6 · answered by mswalls00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have left him the first time he hit you. no woman deserves that. hes abusing you. the letter wasnt wrong.your way too good for him.you need out of that relationship as soon as possible.
2006-10-12 11:06:59 · answer #7 · answered by blu3_p1x1_st1x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sooo tired of these people who apparently love abuse.
Why would ANYONE say they love an abuser and stay in the situation???
Sorry, I just don't get it.
2006-10-12 11:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you really love him and he cares for you and is always there for you then you should stay with him, is that what you wanna hear? You know what to do so quit buggin us and do it.
2006-10-12 10:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by mark f 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hun you have to leave before he kills you I know it harsh to say but its true things like this happen all the time and you'll wake up in a hospital bed thinking to yourself that you should've left without him knowing please be careful hun
2006-10-12 10:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋