I am 12 and I want to kiss my girlfriend. She said we should wait a month. I think thats right but when the time comes how do i go about my first kiss? Is it even the right time?
2006-10-12 10:45:58 · 33 answers · asked by 54jknb5487dfg46 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look baby ... i was just like u ... u are young to do this but month.. it will not make u older so much so dont wait it doesnt matter .. if u are confused about how to kiss ... here's some tips ... enjoy
Steps
Remember that French kissing can quickly unhinge passions. Start with gentle pecks and tongue-free kisses as you get to know someone.
When you're ready to French kiss, lean toward your date with your head tilted slightly to avoid bumping noses. Men may put wrap their arms around a date's waist; women may wrap their arms around a date's neck.
Make eye contact as you lean toward one another but close your eyes as the lips meet. Inadvertent eye-contact mid-kiss can be quite awkward.
As you lean in for the kiss, have your lips parted ever so slightly and inhale through your mouth to heighten the senses and to avoid breathing on your date.
Allow your lips to brush against each others to create light, feathery kisses. Keep the tongue in your mouth initially.
As the kiss warms up, allow your tongue to flicker onto your date's lips. Don't let your tongue linger - keep the flickers quick and gentle.
If your date responds in kind, let your tongue extend back toward his or her tongue. Keep the movement light and gentle - tongue wrestling is a no-no.
Breathe through your nose as your tongues touch playfully and sensually.
Lose yourself in the moment: give complete attention to the kiss. If your mind is on anything else, you're missing out on the full experience.
End the kiss. French kissing can get messy if continued without breathers. Take time to nuzzle necks, nibble ears or whisper sweet nothings before diving in for another kiss.
Overall Things You'll Need
Breath Mints
Overall Tips & Warnings
Fresh breath is essential. Avoid smelly foods (garlic, brie cheese, corn chips, coffee) beforehand. Freshen up with a mint or gum, making sure to dispose of the gum before kissing.
Some people find it helpful to practice French kissing on ice cream. It's a chilly but effective way to practice tongue flickers.
Read your date's body language to ensure a French kiss would be welcomed. Holding hands and gentle brush-ups during the date are good signs.
There is no single right way to French kiss. Kissing is as individual as the people doing it. The most important thing is to be true to yourself, your date and the moment.
French kissing can quickly unleash passions. Know your limits beforehand and be prepared to put the other person on hold when you reach them.
French kissing improves with practice. Don't be dismayed if your first time French kiss fails to ignite fireworks. Practice makes perfect.
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2006-10-12 10:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by shosho_scorp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would wait a little or a lot in this case longer dont rush things I was around your age whan I had my 1st kiss and it messed everything up i could have gotten pregnant!
I could have really messed my life up so give it some time and dont rush into things.
2006-10-12 10:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't too young to experiment with kissing. and i commend you both for waiting a while. you will know when it is right. it won't be forced. it should be in private (no buddies around trying to pressure you into something you may not be ready for) kissing is an intimate expression of feelings for your friend. even at 12 you should respect that. good luck
2006-10-12 10:48:59 · answer #3 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had my first kiss at 11 so I don't think it's too younge. When she's ready you will know. Just be respectful and keep your hands to yourself. You will know when it's the right time be slow and gentle and don't shove your tounge down her throat. Good luck =]
2006-10-12 10:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the rush?
Really kiddo, you're not missing out on much. There is plenty of time left in your life to grow up. Enjoy being 12... take it from a guy that grew up way too fast.
2006-10-12 10:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by Wasting Time 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your 12 i had my first kiss when i was like 11 or 12 but a real kiss i didnt have till i was about 13 or fourteen but when you kiss her tell her how much you like and and make her feel speacial it will make for a better relationship and she will feel so good that you appreciate her enjoy you first kisss while you can...
2006-10-12 10:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by jessica p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush u have plenty of time in your life to do stuff like that but if u feel the time is right than go ahead good luck but keep it at a peck.no more then tha cause thats too much
2006-10-12 10:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by ~*~nun yah biz~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if you think you like her enough to share a first kiss, than u will wait for her. Not that u have to, but u will want to. That is just my oppinon
2006-10-12 10:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by Lauren O. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not to young well i had my first kiss when i was 8. it was my mom's boss's son he was 12. so really its when ever u decide. it doesnt matter just do what you feel is right. ok
2006-10-12 11:04:39 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this case longer dont rush things I was around your age whan I had my 1st kiss and it messed everything up i could have gotten pregnant!
I could have really messed my life up so give it some time a
2014-09-29 09:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋