will men reject you if you want a long term relationship BUT you are waiting to have sex after marriage?cos most guys love sex and want someone to please them!!
2006-10-12 10:31:34 · 14 answers · asked by ~~FrEaK~~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If they love you they will stay with you until you are ready for sex.
2006-10-12 10:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by daveyboyone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm totally for sex before marriage and I'm a guy. I don't see anything wrong with that. Why is this such a big issue to every one when this subject comes up? Sex is natural and is one of the most big things in a relationship wither your married or not. If the sex is not the great each time you do it, you think you will be happy when your married? I think you can tell a lot from a woman or man from how well they do during sex. I don't mean just once but after a few times. Like a test trial. If you don't want to get pregnant early use condoms or what ever then you don't have anything to worry about.
2006-10-13 09:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, this is the way I see sex: I wouldn't want to have sex unless I was in love. And if I was in love, I'd want to marry that person. I might as well wait until marriage. This is especially true if you're a little bit older and getting to that marriage stage (for example, like mid to late 20s).
2006-10-12 14:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A co-worker of mine is waiting until marriage until they get married. They get married this November. They have been together for 1 1/2 years. My cousin also a virgin just got married. Both couples are very active in church so that may have something to do with it. I agree that the right man will wait.
2006-10-12 11:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet E 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I tried waiting 2 years respecting my girls wishes, but I couldn't wait any longer. It was like torture for me. I had so many opportunities with other girls that I was nearly going in sane. I felt like I was watching my youth go by before my eyes. My mates were all doing it. I turned down girls at parties. However I would never cheat on my girl so I broke it off in the end and went on a party/sex rampage. I had sex with so many girls, but I was fairly selective of the type of girl I chose, but wanted to try as many different ways as possible, because one day I will be may not be here and have the opportunity. I also was able to for fill my leather and lycra fetishes. mmmmmm... I have never looked back.
2006-10-13 17:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by oooooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's important for you to wait after then look for someone who will respect you and will be ready to wait after too. Some men won't feel able to stay with someone without having sex for a long time but it depends also how quickly you'd be ready to marry! ;-)
2006-10-13 03:13:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find the right guy he will wait with you.
But something I want to say. Why wait? Sex is best when your 16-25, you ahve alot more urges and hormones. Also your wedding night is supposed to be briallint, if it is your first time, you are going to hate it! It will hurt like hell.
By all means stick to your guns, I have just always wondered why people feel the need to wait.
2006-10-13 10:08:44 · answer #7 · answered by barbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you believe in sex after marriage you should not choose someone who is not going to wait. but you know how guys can be in these times they prefer sex unless they are really in love.
2006-10-12 10:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by metalchik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't reject.... that is one of the many features I look in a wife ;) So after marriage is my answer :)
2006-10-14 13:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by jimmy_m_espana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are ryt, i admit as a man and say yes most of us search for sex and may be if u just give him what he need he will think about u as a body not as a person, i say most not all, but i think really it is so better to do it after marry say if u got pregnant what shall u do? shall u be a singel mom , agin after marrid is so better and decent
2006-10-12 11:20:02 · answer #10 · answered by chemistman 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋