My girlfriend is older than I and we are both inlove with oneanother, but sometimes I get insecure and think that she may leave me for an older Man. I really love her and she is my first girlfriend so I'm like a very nice guy type when I'm with her, she gets alot of my attention, sometimes I feel as though she's in control of almost everything.
2006-10-12 10:22:10 · 10 answers · asked by RyanCharm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me guess, you are like 12
2006-10-12 10:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by Got2seeit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is 10 years younger than me (40/30)...I had dated guys of all ages before we met (about 5 years ago).
I didn't realize how young he was until after we were a year into the relationship and very close. It was only a difference of about 4 years from what I thought his age was, but if I had known his real age when we met, I wouldn't have given him the time of day.
He is more mature than ME in most aspects! I was dating men in their 50s when I met my husband, and they were great guys too.
I really believe that after a guy hits about 28, he doesn't change much....I think that's a good thing, but lots of women seem to think that men will change.
2006-10-12 17:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by gg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is in control of everything-- that's why she wanted a younger guy - so she could control him and always be superior to him. She probably won't leave you for an older man, but eventually she won't be able to control you because you'll have matured, so she'll find a younger replacement to control.
Or, she'll decide she wants a baby and pressure you to grow up real fast.
2006-10-12 17:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's natural to feel a little dominated, she is older and probably a little wiser. But that is a role dealt out and played by ur own insecurities. Just treat her as u would someone ur own age, and not her age #. Remember, after 18, age is just a number. It's all about the maturity level.
2006-10-12 17:29:55 · answer #4 · answered by Timber 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kopguy33 has a good point dude.......although women like to be treated nicely and with respect.....they usually find a man that has no backbone to be unattractive. A women wants a man....that is a real man. I'm not putting you down, I'm just saying you need to let her know that you are a man...and not her puppet when and if the time comes to be so.
2006-10-12 17:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by juslookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not that's not true...my boyfriend's younger than me and i started hating that lately...i'm not lookin for some older man at the present time but being with a younger boy really sucks
2006-10-12 17:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by CherOkeeGurL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She IS in control of everything because you are a weak guy and a doormat.
She'll probably dump you for another guy.
2006-10-12 17:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring home your older brother and see what she does with him
2006-10-12 17:25:43 · answer #8 · answered by orygunduk1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's already cheating on you. You sound weak.
2006-10-12 17:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not true
2006-10-12 17:24:13 · answer #10 · answered by Alissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋