Hi there at the risk of using more points, I need to know how to play hard to get. I know this is the secret to getting this guy, as he loves the chase, I do like him. We talk on the phone for hours and text, but rarely see each other at the moment. Long story. See other question. However, I don't want to be needy, everyone says play hard to get but how do I do this when we only talk onphone or text occasionally? Some good ideas please, he's just sent text to say he's ringing tomoroow night, I've just got back off two week holiday.
2006-10-12 10:17:47 · 9 answers · asked by flumoxed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, one way to play hard to get is to make sure he texts and calls you much more than you text and call him. Let him initiate most contact. If you get a phone call or a text, you don't have to answer a.s.a.p. - give it a little bit of time. Make it appear that you're busy and have lots going on. Best of all is to truly BE busy and have lots going on. Then you will not feel as desperate to be in constant contact with him, it'll give you more self-confidence, and self-confidence is attractive.
2006-10-12 10:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself busy with your own friends and activities. Guys try harder when women act like they don't need them. If they do land an independent woman, it's a huge ego-booster. As for this call, it doesn't hurt to end it a little early with the excuse that you promised you'd meet your friends somewhere, or something like that.
2006-10-12 17:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he leave beside u? if yes time is the solution, if u got love really with him and he love u all things shall go smothly, but never be oneside love, plz don't be try to control urself now b4 u regrect, that is my advice as a man, but just show him how u care about him, that is enough for now give him hints that u like him but not show ok, c u
2006-10-12 17:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by chemistman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand by playing hard to get, that u are running a risk of not getting the guy. So weigh your options.
But if u MUST, try flirting alittle bit, then take it away.
Touch his thigh, then push away....get the routine???
its pretty simple, if the guy is interested...or he feels your work the game...BUT if not...he will move on, because "tricks" are for kids
Good luck
2006-10-12 17:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by daaeck2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be doing something with your friends the next time he calls. He'll wonder where you are and what you're doing. You'll be on his mind until you call him nicely and with your usual enthusiasm about how happy you are to talk to him.
2006-10-12 18:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be so keen to reply. be aloof. if you are too quick to text back he might get the wrong idea. treat them mean and keep them keen.
i know i did it with my girlfriend and i'm still with her three years later. she liked me because i didn't pester her with text messages every five minutes.
2006-10-12 17:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by bagyman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is when he calls make sure you cut the phone call short,
2006-10-12 17:21:53 · answer #7 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't make things too easy for him! Make him work to have you.
2006-10-12 17:21:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt but never let him have you. Or be all prissy and pretend he doesn't excite you
2006-10-12 17:19:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋