for the most part i am the kind of person that takes a joke, laughs nor whines and cries and so forth. i went to a jr. college for 3 years and for 2 and 1/2 years i did whatever i set my mind to: i had friends, was happy, found me time, never answered back to my parents. then, my last year there i met my bf. after 5 months together i was a complete different person. i was depressed, unhappy, having nervous breakdowns, in tears day in and out, as well as making my life a living hell with so much worry and stress. i was taking 6 classes, 19 credit hours and working off to the side on Fidays and Sundays. my grades were bad in Calculus class, i had let myparenrs down, and along the way became this new person. i am taking things seriously now a days, not as a joke, am happy but not as happy as i used to be and i wonder what happened to the person that i once was. i have heard from 7 people: family. bf, and close friends that i have changed not for the better but for the worse is scary!help!
2006-10-12 09:43:11 · 2 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
now my bf as well as my sister wonder what happened to the girl who laughed at every joke or took things for what they wore and did nor worry 24/7. that made me cry a couple of times because i just want to go back to the way things used to be! i see my bf trying to make me happy all the time yet i cannot make him happy! i cahanged so much in such a little time, as though i am trying to grow up. i am 22, going to a university and yes i have problems but i just want to find the person that i somehow lost along the way:the one that everyone loved, adored, laughed with or better yet got along with. i do not want to be this ***** since i am sick of the person i have become! i am not asking for a miracle, just some real advice. thanks.
2006-10-12 09:48:13 · update #1
I am not sure of this, but I think it has to do with growing up,we become responsible for ourselves and our actions, we see the things our parents always warned us about ,being adults, but we couldn't wait to get there .Nos we are here and look we become depressed, stressed, and just plain fed up with life. I would suggest you find a someone to vent and let it all at. God knows most of the time I need one.
2006-10-12 10:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ms T in GI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should seek treatment. You may be depressed, you may have a chemical inbalance. See a physician and have a physical as well. SAVE YOURSELF!!!!
2006-10-12 09:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋