If you loved someone deeply would you stay by theirside no matter what?

Question

This was asked under mental health b/c it's your mental health we are speaking of. I love my man. We argue it never gets really ugly. After many years we aren't married or rich. We just get by day to day.

Answer 1

yes

Answer 2

Yes but since you asked this under Mental Health I'm assuming that someone needs help and they should seek it from a professional asap. You shouldn't stay in a relationship if it becomes detrimental to your mental/physical health.

Answer 3

If the feeling is mutual and your love is true Yup! Sure would. If there is abuse, (verbal or physical of any kind) or constant cheating or participation in some weird cult. Nope! I would send him packing faster than he could say "But Babe!?" If he wouldn't leave, I would. Other than that, I would be true to my dying breath and do everything in my power to show my love every day so that he would always feel wanted, loved, satisfied and secure. If you were not born a queen or king, it is the only way to feel like one. Because when you give everything, you get what you give 10 fold if it is real love.

Answer 4

Nope - There are some things people can do to kill love - actually destroy it - and if they do, then you have to accept the loss as you would that of a child the two of you had.

Also, if they get into certain bad habits or self destructive behavior and reject your attempts to intervene, then at some point you have to step back.

But yes, barring those things, I'd stay and help as long as I could be doing some genuine good, either comforting them or actually helping them. Staying close and loving with a spouse who fades away with Alzheimers is a good example of that.

Answer 5

If you are referring to an illness then absolutely. My husband and I have been married 25 years and have gone through 3 bouts of Renal Cell cancer. In fact we just went to the doctor this morning to start a new treatment. If it is a criminal offense, or they have destroyed your respect of trust then that is a different situation and should be thought over very carefully.

Answer 6

Of course, that's the definition of love

However, I am assuming that your question refers to standing by someone if they are ill or get into trouble or that sort of thing.

I draw the line at being abused. But actually, I don't think you can love someone deeply and BE abused. Love can be beaten out of you. If you still think you are deeply in love AFTER being abused then you need to work on your own self-love. You deserve better.

Answer 7

I would stick by the man I love, through hell and back. However, if a man strikes you or threatens to kill you, that is when you put your feelings aside and run, just as fast as you can- it would only be a matter of time, you find yourself in the hospital or dead. No love is worth that!

Answer 8

yes u should definitly....if u really truely love sum1 u would be with them always whether its by their side physically or mentally. if u truely love him u would be as one in mind and soul..not tryin to sound cheezy or anything. and of coarse ur gonna have sum types of arguements just hope that it doesnt get too serious..u both should talk everything out about ur future with cool heads and take wise desicions.......hope that helps

Answer 9

I love my ex-husband deeply but we are better at being friends than we are married because he wants to be free. But if he needs me I am there no matter what.

Answer 10

Most likely yes. However, if staying by their side meant destroying myself in the process, then the answer would be no.

Answer 11

Absolutely. Even if they fell ill, they still need love and support. We are nothing without those who love us, whether they are our spouse or brothers/sisters, or best friends. Everyone needs love no matter what.