am in a crazy situation and I need your insights because my brain is not thinking too clearly.
I met this girl in Orlando who is a 'callgirl'. We kind of 'connected' and went on dates while I spent about 6000 in July06 on her.
I came back to my college and we kept in touch on the phone.
I went back to visit her for my bday recently 3 weeks back.
Last weekend, she asked me to western union her 500 which I did by asking my bro for it and told her to pay it back as it is my brothers money. She said ok and then did not call or pickup my calls for 4 days straight.
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crazy situation alert:
after repeatedly trying to call her with no response after 4 days, I concluded she pretty much is done with me. I leave her some messages telling her what I think and stopped calling.
1) she calls me today and left a message: claims she was in the hospital. now shes mad at me coz i called her a *****. She admitted that she was with me only for the money ..contd. below...
2006-10-12 09:01:25 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he admits she used me for my moneu and I was supposed to be her "sugardaddy nothin more"
I still love her but dont know what to do...I think I wanna be in touch with her.
QUESTION: 1) what are some good ways to diffuse the situation ?
2) Now that we both confronted that she was using me for my money, how can I let her be my gf like everyone else without her just being after my money? In other words, what are some good ways to blossom a healthy relationship?
Please give any other advice and suggestions.
Thanks.
2006-10-12 09:01:45 · update #1
Looks like you pretty much got a taste of your own medicine, the only thing you should do is let it go Move on!!Because there will never be trust in the relationship!!
2006-10-12 09:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by da gold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUNNNN. Get away from this gold digger as soon as possible. Why would you want to have someone like this in your life. It seems like you are a caring person and deserve someone who likes you for you and doesn't have an alternative motive to be in a relationship with you. About the money, just let her keep it. You already know that she has no scruples or morals. Just let it go, cut all ties with this person. I'm sure you can do better.
2006-10-12 09:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by Amy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I can sort of relate to the situation. If it was me, she would already be my wife by the time she asked for $500.
Lesson 1, don't pay for it
or if you can't do lesson 1,
Lesson two, don't ever fall in love with anybody you are paying, for anything. If you pay somebody $10 to cut your hair, then don't even consider them. At least till you wait a year or so with NO financial considerations either way.
2006-10-12 09:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases it's the other way around.. Guy/Girl wise..
I HIGHLY suggest you MOVE ON...
I dont think u know what love or a relationship is .. bc i can tell u one thing.. this def aint it..
you sound sincere - you deserve a real girl.. not some punk *** gold digger.. take your money and invest in someone worth investing in.. trust me - and do e/thing to get your money back.. even if it means legal action - especially since it is not urs..and leave that poor **** to someone who deserves her..
2006-10-12 09:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by MIMSTRIK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um....she's a callgirl. Doesn't sound like she is relationship material. She took you for money, let it go. You probably won't get it back. Move on, find someone who isn't out for money. You will do better that way. Good luck!
2006-10-12 09:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Amanda♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of girls that will appreciate you and not your money. Don't waste any more of your time with her. You might think you are in love but it could only be infatuation.
I know that it may be hard but time will heal and you will see in the long run you are better off.
Good Luck
2006-10-12 09:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by Yasmin76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say this to you, but like the song says, "love is like fishing in the ocean, you will always find someone new". you sound way too young, to be in this kind of mess. is there something wrong with you that you can not find someone who likes you and wants to be with you besides, the "call girl"./
so what is she was in the hosptial or not, she admitted to you she was only using you for money.
considering if you dine a woman the right way and can get it for free, why in the heck are you even wasting your time with this girl.
burn her number. forget her.
2006-10-12 09:06:12 · answer #7 · answered by lasalle_1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she's already admitted that she was just using you for your money. I don't think the signs can be any clearer than that. Nothing will change if you start dating her, except she'll expect you to spend even more on her. Dump her fast and move on before you get hurt even worse.
2006-10-12 09:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by deepwaters05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scoundrel, take a sprint from the pages of bill Clinton's memoirs and purchase her a clean dress, yet ask that she provide you the old one so as which you would be able to for my area get rid of it. we might hate to ascertain the DNA information from her stained dress carry a solid guy such as you down. additionally provide her the morning after pill, lest you you prefer some b@stard toddler to return out of the woodwork sometime to blackmail you. as quickly as you're specific which you're in the clean on the two fronts, you supplies you Julie the old heave ho (no pun meant).
2016-10-16 03:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there anything of her you can take without getting in too much trouble with the law?
you need to recoup your losses somehow.
I assume you have not made her sign a receipt for the money?
You could also threaten to report her to the police as a prostitute, you need some proof though.
2006-10-12 09:11:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋