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you already had a friend ask him out for you and he said he would think about it and then said no(after a day)?? So is it okay now to get up the nerve and ask him myself?

---you ought to know he is a senior and I am a freshman---

p.s.
in class I will be playing battleship on the computer and he is like" you stink at battleship, but I am real good."
and then he will like wheel his chair around to me and like look at what I am doing at the computer.[homeroom is the only class we have together and it is in the computer lab]
Then one day he was like"you know it takes more muscles to frown than it does to smile{i was frowning at the time}, man you must have strong cheek muscles."
do those mean he is interested?????
please help me.

and any advice on how to ask him out would be good.
{could i ask to borrow a pen then wrap a yes no note on it asking him to go out with me?}[would that be ok to do????]


help!!!!!

2006-10-12 08:51:11 · 4 answers · asked by Samantha C 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

4 answers

I have wasted countless, irretrievable time contemplating the confusing messages that guys send!! However, I had to come to the realization that they aren't sending me confusing messages, they just aren't that into me!! Most men (about 85-95%) let women know when they want them, and they will not send you confusing messages. Everythhing will be clear to you!

However, there are those shy men who are scared to talk to women, but they are so few. Nothing stands in the way of a man when he wants a woman. Moreover, do you REALLY think that this guy is shy? Do you truly, without a doubt, get that vibe that he likes you? Doubt should tell you that he's not interested. Men love a challenge, so I have decided to let them make the move. Answer this question: Have you ever talked to a guy first? If so, what has the outcome been most of the time?

For me, it has always ended 'disasterously'. Meaning nothing ever happened because I had to be the one expressing interest. If this sounds like you, then I think you should let the guys come to you. They will! Just give it time!

2006-10-12 09:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by SexyBack 2 · 0 0

no is no if he were interested he would have said yes. Don't waste your time find someone your own age

2006-10-12 08:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0 0

you could do the note thing, but be concerned with the fact he said no already

2006-10-12 08:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0 0

hes not interested at all

forget it

2006-10-12 08:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 0 0

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