I don't want any cussing the girls he hangs out with or any sexual references, I just need advice on how I can talk to him and stuff. What can I do not to get jealous so easily?
2006-10-12 08:47:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I trust him this girl has just been like on him a lot lately and he swears she's not and that they are just friends. But she's calling him sexy and saying stuff I don't want to chew her out or kick her butt...yet so what do i do? Do I just trust him or talk to him? I know he's not doing anything either so that's not a possibility...
2006-10-12 08:59:48 · update #1
You need to have a conversation with him, Tell him this in your own words," I sometimes get jealous when you are around other girls, I am working on it but I want you to be aware of it and please do not ever use this against me." He may want to continue the conversation or may not, but if he does then good for you and it will be good for the relationship. Now for you, You need to be a part of his life, get to know the people he knows, this will help by not making things awkward when say a girl you don't know runs up and hugs him and starts talking to him, you will already know her and it is fine for you to ask him questions about his friends. He may have known her a very long time and she is just a true genuine friend and if you get to know the girls then you will know when they are trying to come on to him and you can pull them to the side and tell them he is taken. A little and I do mean very little jealousy is sort of good, but out of control it is very ugly and a trait most people do not like. Good luck.
2006-10-12 09:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like they always say... life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what your gonna get, unless of course you stick your finger in the bottem of it and see what ozzez out
i mean u should find out whos hes with and y. if u never try u'll never no 4 sure if th girl is "cussing or anything"
0 ya, just 2 be sure u should figure out if they heve rilashionship!
(i hope this helped, if it didnt im so so so sorry cuz this all the help i got 4 u)
2006-10-12 15:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jasmine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Any relationship must come with trust. Do you trust your boyfriend? The fastest way to lose anyone is to be jealous and controlling. Your boyfriend has to associate with other people and yes sometimes it may be a female. As long as he isnt disrespecting you then dont worry about it. You are stressing yourself out worrying over nothing. If you cant talk to your man then this isnt the man you need to be with. I hope you are not trying to talk to him about not talking to other females. It will never happen. He has to communicate with others and so do you.
2006-10-12 15:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you so insecure? Has he given you any reason to not trust him?
Love is all about trust. If you cannot trust him then you should break it off now because you will be miserable forever. Learn to trust or you will be very lonely. He will tire of your accusations and leave you.
Good luck.
2006-10-12 15:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u trust him then there is no need to be jealous. he is your man and your man only. maybe your not confident in the relationship and need to feel secure. is he doing anything that u think isnt right? is he flirting? if not then u need to grow ur own confidence and feel equal to him, u wont feel so jealous then
2006-10-12 15:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by Hatty Sue 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a personal issues! You have to trust your man and yourself. You know you handling your business, so forget these other women!
2006-10-12 15:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by mjt 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
By feeling more secure with who YOU are, will give you the confidence to cure your jealousy. Maturity is also a strong factor as well.
2006-10-12 15:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you cant beat them, join them. That away you can moderate what is said to some extent
2006-10-12 15:50:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
calm down and remember....... its not life or death there killer.
2006-10-12 15:49:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋