i'm kinda shy?

Question

I am 18 and i have never been with a girl, no i'm not gay but i just have a problem starting the conversation. it's not like i am extremely ugly or something, any tips on what i should do.

Answer 1

It is the most easy thing in your life to do, You must first realize that shy people do not get anywhere..to talk to a girl, you simply go to her and say hello...she will say hello and after that you tell her anything...why are you alone here ?, would you like to talk ? May I invite for a Coke, i don't like to drink alone ? Ehhh you look beautiful, I like the color of your dress, of your hair...
If you compliment a girl there is no way that you do anything wrong on the contrary, most girls like to be flatter. You might find one that does not wants to relation herself with anyone but they are really the least..
Sometimes what you find at 18 years old is that you are still not old enough and really not young at all. If you find a girl that does not wishes to talk maybe she has not change her baby socks for stockings, she will never understand you..Always older girls, older women's understands us better, and be advice, be clean, smell good, well groomed guys,smart dressed do better than others...doing sports is always kind of attractive for girls, be kind, be gentle, you have a future....good luck..

Answer 2

A good tip is to have a few questions up your sleeve, not the kind of questions that only require yes or no, but more open questions like 'tell me about......' or 'what do you think of.....?'
Listen attentively and the answers you get should stimulate more conversation.

Mostly though, don't think about yourself and what impression you are making, that will only make you more self conscious and therefore not give your attention to the person you're talking to.

The fact that you are 18 and never been out with a girl is not a problem, please don't feel pressurized...that will come.

Good luck.

Answer 3

you should start talking to strangers anywthere you meet them. Start talking about the weather, something you have seen anything. This will boost your confidence a bit and you will feel relaxed after few months and the shyness you experience will start to fade away. When your confidence starts to grow, you will be more comfortable around people and girls too. When you are comfortable with poeple, its lot easier to have conversations.

So remember start with small steps. Start by having small talks with people you meet everyday and you will notice the difference.

Answer 4

I have a daugher that is 19 and feels the same way. Who knows how many girls are out there wishing that would talk to them, but they don't want to seem forward and talk to you first. If some girl keeps smiling at you, that would be the one to talk to. Find out what she is interested in, how many siblings she has, etc.

Answer 5

Just be brave, introduce yourself and speak up. It's just lke walking, when you start learning it , it just goes the next step and the next thing you know you're alredy running, hehe. You just have to think that there is nothing wrong with talking and meeting girls. And smile, smile always works:)

Answer 6

you dint need to be James bond, to impress a girl, you must be nice and funny , and be honest , if you are in a bar or you are introduced to some one just say hi , nice to meet you, and ask for school friend, favorite food try to find things that you can have in com on with her, make something stupid , girl likes boys that can make fool of them self, good luck

Answer 7

become friends with them first. talk to them the same way you talk to your friends, maybe not about the same things. have any sisters? ask them. girls are just people too. they get nervous too. we all have faults. dont try too hard. be a friend. make girls laugh. tell her youre nervous, hopefully shes got a heart and will understand. seek out shy girls who dont have much experience. good luck

Answer 8

save yourself for marriage.