By the way were still in secondary school, that mite complicate things!
2006-10-12 08:11:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find someone who is like you.. don't ruin a good thing... If he weren't straight you would know it too..
2006-10-12 08:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's a risk you gotta take. I had loadza crushes - but crushes are crushes and in time crushes fade into "oh god what did I see in that person". (mostly, especially if at school, you'll look back and think "what was I on!!")
Only you know the person, so we can't say how he would react - my view is that you know the person best - have they given you any indication that you would really be in with a chance? - or is it just you wishing an hoping.
Why take the chance if you haven't been given an indication - it could all blow up. I had plenty of crushes at school, on older men, mates my own age and a few flings - but I would say that 99.9% of those that I had schoolboy flings with are now 100% straight.
No matter what age we are, gender or sexuality, straight gay, single/divorced, married or living with partner, we all have crushes, thoughts and desires - it's about how much we can contain them, keep in check with reality and ultimately choose the option that we really believe is right - or are prepared to take the risk.
Whatever you decide good luck - and take no notice of the twats that decide to write *** and the like......
2006-10-12 08:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by pauliepops66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't confuse admiration for "a crush". You are both young, sometimes your feelings get mixed up. You may " love " him very much as a dear friend and you are mistaking this for something else. Do not ruin a great friendship by telling your pal what you THINK you feel, time will tell, play it down for now !!!!!!
2006-10-12 08:20:41 · answer #3 · answered by Dolly Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have a have crush too on a girl best friend in my old school while I was in 6th Grade and we just were friends and had our own secret together but no intimacy, you can tell him you like him and see his response, you might fall in love!
2006-10-12 08:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by Joey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things can be hard in secondary school, all hormones etc, It may just be a faze you are going through, and you may not be gay. I would say stick to fantasy just now and do not approach your mate
2006-10-12 08:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by PChill1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A quick way of losing your freind is to hit on him. Once you score the friendship will end anyways.Find someone who plays on the same team and keep your friend a friend
2006-10-12 08:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm thats a hard one but try talking to him first.
If he is straight then its gonna be a bit hard cuz u cant just turn someone straight gay outa nowhere but since ur in middle school it shouldnt be that like CRAZY for you to tell him.He might feel a little akward around u after u ttell him but he should find out before its too late.
2006-10-12 08:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you tell him and he doesn't feel the same way, your friendship might never be the same again, or even worse it might end. i'd keep shtum and hopefully it'l die out as crushes ususlly do, meanwhile the love of your life might be right around the corner.
2006-10-12 08:17:34 · answer #8 · answered by molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advise to you is to leave it alone.
keep your friend as your friend, dont tell him you have
a crush on him as it might ruin your friendship, also as
you are only in secondary school this may cause you
problems in school if this got out.
2006-10-12 08:16:45 · answer #9 · answered by Raine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quoting Jack Sparrow,
"You've gotta get yourself a girl, mate."
Men aren't meant to be with men; they're not designed that way (or did you zone out in sex ed?)
Focus on a healthy relationship with a GIRL
2006-10-12 08:17:41 · answer #10 · answered by Ayumi 23 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋