I've been dating my boyfriend for about 9 months going on for 10 months now.
He seems slightly different this past week. When I ask him whats wrong, he says nothing. It's very unlike him not wanting to share his concerns or feelings with me. I really get this sense though ive lost his trust or something.
He's really attractive, intelligent and in extremely good shape, so I don't see why he figures I would cheat. Yet this past week he's really different.
This has been my longest relationship, and its a serious one. Is this normal? Maybe he's going through a phase? He's extremely mature so I can't see him playing mind games with me. He's also usually very very open about anything.
He has chosen to wait before we have sex to make sure we're 100% in love.
My best friend thinks since he's not satisfying my needs, some other guy is. I wouldn't do that, I love my boyfriend too much.
How do I fix this?
2006-10-12 08:08:40 · 5 answers · asked by Dezzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This sounds like a classic case of getting to read each other without knowing them. You see he is acting differently but don't know why. Well, until you talk to him about it, you can try to ignore it (and good luck) or make up scenarios in your head. He might be under a lot of pressure at work. Maybe he is starting to realize how much he cares for you and is stuck in your exact situation trying to figure out if you feel the same way. I'm telling you. 98% chance it's something small and innocent (and maybe even something you've both been wanting to and waiting to say and hear from each other). Just tell him you feel like he's been a little distant lately and ask if there's anything he wants to talk about. Take it from there.
2006-10-12 08:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're over analyzing the situation. It seems to me that if you asked him to tell you why he has had the sudden change in behavior he might actually answer. If you've been together only 9-10 months there's no reason you should know you're in love. It's still early. And it may just be that he's having a bad week. Show him some love, give him a big hug, and let your man know you're there for him through thick and thin.
2006-10-12 15:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ally S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's examining your situation and thinking about your long term future together. Could he be different and nervous because maybe he's thinking about taking your relationship one step farther?
2006-10-12 15:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by Karen W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are your ages?
2006-10-12 15:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it is not that he suspects YOU cheated....perhaps HE has cheated.
2006-10-12 15:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋