I have had a long time boyfriend that I love, but I always seem finding myself having a crush on someone. I never act on it or anything, but I feel really guilty at times. Is it really normal to have these crushes?
2006-10-12 08:08:00 · 16 answers · asked by Kim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the question you must ask yourself is that if he was having crushes on other girls would you think its o.k. this pretty much should answer your question.
2006-10-12 08:14:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it really a crush or just a physical attraction?
I have been with my husband 21 years, I am 61 and I still see men that I think are attractive. Some of them I am even curious about or fantasize about, but I know that I would never act because what I have is better than they could possibly. If you do nothing about any crushes and you know what you have is the best for you yes it is harmless.
2006-10-12 08:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by BUPPY'S MEME 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's normal. i have about 3 crushes at the moment. as long as you don't act on them and don't really want to act on them, it's harmless. crush away.
2006-10-12 08:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age, I guess. Teenage crushes are, generally, harmless and normal. However, if you feel guilty, then that suggests it is not harmless.
2006-10-12 08:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's completely normal to have crushes like that! It's hormones. It's bound to happen sooner or later. But as long as you realize that it is just a crush.
2006-10-12 08:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by jessi.swimchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if you act on them, and crushes seem harmless, but if it gets around to you crush then you know that you might act on it, which is cheating, so i'll let you know that its happened many times and for a guy who is faithful it pisses the ***** outta me... cause yall feamle always on the hunt for the next best guy to give it to you, then you accuse us of cheating a lot,
2006-10-12 08:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very normal. As long as you don't act on them then they're totally harmless.
2006-10-12 08:09:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes having a crush can be harmless.
but if you have one and you are single and then come to find out they don't feel the same way you feel about them....that can lead to heartbreak
2006-10-12 08:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to break up with your boyfriend....i don't think it's normal to have crushes on other people all the time.....
2006-10-12 08:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by asking 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can always have crush on someone as long as you dont mess up...cuz its pretty much normal
2006-10-12 08:16:09 · answer #10 · answered by ♥D@t_bLaSiaN♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋