ok well there is this guy named patrick adn we have been going out for 1 month on friday the 13th.... i know thats not good but anyway me and him have been together for 1 month and he has already beat up 3 guys for talking to me and now i can't go to homecommin cuz " he doesn't feel like going" and he wont let me go im scared to break up with him he's been acting so diffrent lately i dnt know what to even say to him anymore it scares me plz tell me what to do!! i really NEED help with this on...
2006-10-12 07:58:44 · 8 answers · asked by ColeCole j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would probably talk to him about it and tell him you really want to go. If he still says no, I would probably break up with him because he should do want you want to do.
2006-10-12 08:03:25 · answer #1 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's scary but you need to just get rid of him. He's no good for you and it will only get worse. You can't spend your life walking on egg shells. First talk to an adult about it. I know you probably don't want to feel like a tattle tail but you've got to do something. If you are scared then don't do it by yourself or you might back out. Get some friends and some family and people at the school (adults) let them know the situation and make sure you have got back up. He may try something a few times but once he realizes you mean business he will back off. Stick to your guns and don't be afraid to stand up for yourself. These guys pray on girls/guys they know will be too scared to fight back. So proove him wrong.
2006-10-12 15:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea heres what you do: tell him that you want to break up with him, and if he doesnt like it he can go and stick it where the sun dont shine. if he decides to get physical all you need to do is kick him in the nuts once. that will get him down long enough for you to call the police. or you can do it in a place where there are lots of people, so he wont be inclined to beat the crap out of neone.
2006-10-12 15:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by bobthefish40592 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him and get a restraining order make sure the cops know he is violent and dangerous. Go to the dance yourself.
2006-10-12 15:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait RU a guy or a girl? E-mail me and maybe I can help!
2006-10-12 15:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by basketballrockspurple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a guy who's dating a guy?
um... ew!
That kinda relationship is terribly unhealthy...BREAK UP W/ HIM... QUICK!!
2006-10-12 15:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by Ayumi 23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you a boy or a girl, and in an abusive relationship, get out talk to an adult
2006-10-12 15:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would do what he says. If you don't, he'll probably kick your ***! Oh no! What have I done? Please don't tell him I was talking to you! He might come and beat me up! Loser!!!!!!!!
2006-10-12 15:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by Josh H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋