My boyfriend want to meet my friend and hook up with her (we played a trick on him to see if he would cheat), so how do i tell him that i want to break up w/him without getting my friend into all of this mess.
2006-10-12 07:40:57 · 13 answers · asked by SexyAmby 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women and their stupid games. So you found out he'd bang your friend. Good for you.You have trust issues. What would you have done if he passed? I know if I was a guy and found out you pulled that, I'd drop you like a bad habit. Would you have told him about the test? If not, you both are guilty of dishonesty.
2006-10-12 07:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by Achaholic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she put herself into the mess by agreeing to do it anyway. I hope she didn't have motives to have him to herself when she agreed to do this......... and thought she was going to stab you in the back while she was at it. She is in this, tell your bf what you and HER did and that the jig is up and you are DUMPING HIM, YOU don't need a cheater. If he still wants her after he finds out what she did and helped you do (if that was her plan) then that is up to them, and you lost a friend that wasn't a friend in the first place. If she is telling you NOT to bring her up in this about having anything to do with all of this, she has her OWN motives and I would bring her up anyway because she IS in this mess, and she AGREED to be in this mess......... and if she has NOTHING to hide, then she don't care about him knowing the TRUTH. And that is the TRUTH. Blessed be..............
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2006-10-12 14:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's the jerk, who cares what he thinks of you and your friend, tell him the truth and to take a hike. Cheating on you is bad enough, but with your friend?? doubt it was the first time he cheated.
2006-10-12 14:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by strtat2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about "I've thought it over and I don't want to date anyone right now. I really need to focus on ... (school, work, my creative side, my family - make up your own excuse). It's been fun but I need my space."
Leave the circumstances out of it.
2006-10-12 14:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by kramerdnewf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You played the game now you must finish the game. Tell him you set him up and he failed the test. Don't back down now.
2006-10-12 14:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you can't trust him to be faithful. you can tell him you heard that he was trying to hook up with some one, or you don't have to give him an explination. He doesn't deserve one!
2006-10-12 14:50:38 · answer #7 · answered by *~*Christel*~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you want to break up with him. tell him you have trust issues with him, you don't have to put your friends name in the break up, cause if he was willing to cheat with her he would cheat with anyone.
2006-10-12 14:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell himsomething like honey we're over i saw you when you started flirting with my friend im not mad at her in any kind of way because she didnt flirt with you so its over if you dont like that make up a lie like u stole money out my purse its over :) lol
2006-10-12 14:46:44 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie101202 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditto carleen. Just tell him that you have reason not to trust him anymore.
2006-10-12 14:44:37 · answer #10 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋