Does it really make a difference if you sleep with a woman on or around the 1st, 2nd or 3rd date? If so, why? Or is better for a woman to make you all wait for months??? Hoping that, that's not all you want. But If so, your still gonna leave after you get it right? So, does it really make a difference if a woman makes you wait? Just a thought.....
2006-10-12 06:59:00 · 16 answers · asked by denise 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't believe these liars, if a girl gives it up on the first date we would wonder how often she sleeps around, and we wouldn't take her seriously, maybe not even a second date. every guy wants to be SPECIAL, so if the girl gives in reluctanly after some courtship, then it is worth more.
2006-10-12 07:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by swordlord23 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are a lot of ifs involved. When I was in the market, I dated a lot. Men are always ready to make love.
We don't think about numbers or amount of dates or time the way you do.
If you're looking for a relationship then it would be advisable to make an investment of time and interest, showing you're interested , allowing certain liberties that stop at the crotch.
Men believe if they can touch it, they can have it.
Never use the words ,"not on a first or second date" this causes resentment.
It's much nicer to say , I really like you and I have tingles but I don't sleep around. Let's see what develops.
If a guy is interested , he'll stick around but don't think in number of dates, think in magic and spontaneity.
If the guy is looking for quick sex , you'll most likely not see him again.
To have given in to such a guy, is not to be taken seriously or even to be passed around.
Months? I woudn't have waited. I am still a very good friend with a girl a dated 30 years ago. She tells me she wished we had been together. Well , spilt milk.
It does matter to a degree. Wait too long , he may think you're fridgid.
If you are in a relationship that you feel love to and from him and still decide to hold off. Let him know that you desire him, but want to wait.
As I first said , there are a lot of what ifs.
I hope this has been of some help.
2006-10-12 14:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men leave right after...I tell you this because I am not one of them who leave. I will never sleep with a woman on the 1st, 2nd, or 3rd date, because you're basing your potential relationship on sexual intimacy. I guess because I'm older now, that type of relationship isn't appealing to me. I've always been one to respect women and their decision on when to have sex...depending on what you want really, is the best answer to your question. If you want to get laid, you do what you think you have to. If you are looking for something bonifide and substantial, you do what it takes. A lot of dudes have given us the bad rap...sorry.
2006-10-12 14:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh please come on, men want the pussy and women have it its beautiful and if you girls were devious and wicked you could rule the world.thank OD you are not .simply put any guy who is straight that doesn't get laid by the third date is wasting his time because sex is so fun and good that lots of women have also discovered this fact so if you are not giving it up homeboy will get it from some other chick im not saying every one is that way but if you are attractively handsome and have just a wee bit of game you are getting laid alot if your not then you wont be getting it anyway so why bother.if you think any guy in the ages of 18-29 is looking to settle down and become monogamous i have some ocean front property ill sell to you up IN Montana
2006-10-12 14:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by buttplugun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a little unfair. I sleep with my X on the first date and she left me (after six years). I think it is important for the woman to feel comfortable with the decision. So when ever you are ready is the right time. By the was dating games are for kids.
2006-10-12 14:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by kinreep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys don't look down on a girl that "puts out" on the first couple of dates. If you like the guy, it's probably better to do it early in the relationship because a lot of guys get tired of waiting, even if they really like the girl.
2006-10-12 14:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by buff831 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think most guys can handle a woman who'll give it up on the first night. they automatically start wonderin if she's a whore and how many guys she's been with. it's in a woman's best interest to make a guy work for it a lil if she want's to be taken seriously. it doesn't guarantee anything but that's the best course of action.
2006-10-12 14:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show some respect for your self and a man will stay. So wait a while. it doesnt have to be months but you know. If a man is going to leave then let him.
2006-10-12 14:02:55 · answer #8 · answered by A man ready to commit. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's what marriage as a legal institution was legislated to protect us from the men. Just that too many teens with raging hormones learn from their peers. Bind leading the blind. There's always Amsterdam or Africa for that kind of sex, you know.
2006-10-12 14:11:52 · answer #9 · answered by mmmporg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to tango--or have sex. If you think he's just hanging around to get some, and you're looking for something more than sex, then dump him. If you are just into some fun and who knows where it goes, then give it up!
2006-10-12 14:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by etilyad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋