Well first off, he won't go down on me. He has before.. he kinda just doesn't care it seems like. I tell him I won't do it to him anymore.. but I always do. He is all about himself being pleasured, but when it comes to me.. he doesn't care. I know for a fact there is no one else because we are literally together ALL the time.. so I don't know what it is. Like, just to make out with him is a hassle. I like it. I know it seems kind of teenagerish.. but I still like kissing him all the time. I like when he cuddles.. which doesn't happen much anymore. While having sex.. he is done within a few minutes, and I end up getting myself off. I mean he will put his hand down there, but its not the same if we're both not into it. It kinda kills the mood too. I feel like I'm not attractive to him anymore, or hes bored of the same thing.. Im not sure. We have tried A LOT of things.. so its not like I just like one thing and thats what we do. ANy ideas guys????
2006-10-12 06:57:58 · 11 answers · asked by Ally, THAT girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
great, now you telling all the ppl on here OUR problems! and did you have to tell them I'm done in two minutes?
tea bag me?
2006-10-12 07:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a few ideas...
#1 - have him see a dr. there could be a medical reason behind this
#2 - you both need to talk about this sometime outside the bedroom
#3 - you need to be sure everything is clean, fresh, shaved? down there. Take another shower/bath just prior to bed
#4 - give him some space. he may just be on overload from you being around ALL the time.
2006-10-12 07:05:54 · answer #2 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think about breaking up with him... every guy should treat his girl like a princess. Don't settle for someone who doesnt give you what you deserve. You are in such a vulnerable position right now becuase he can get you to do what he wants but doesnt need to give in return. You need to get the upper hand back... let him know he needs to love you like you deserve or you'll find someone else who will.
2006-10-12 07:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He TOTALLY doesnt appreciate you any more.
That's a sure fire sign that you should start shtoinking me instead.
In fact, I'll call TheOne and see if he's up for giving you a little 3-some action with me. I won't shower for a week and you can be the meat in a Hobo Sandwich.
2006-10-12 07:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it could be lots of reasons:
He doesnt want you no more
He thinks your cheating so he's putting a distance between you two.
You probably get on his nerver and want to be alone for a while
Maybe hes going through somethings and he doesnt even notice that hes not doing those things
He just not into
2006-10-12 07:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think just b/c yall speand all your time together there can't be someone else. Men are sneaky and will try anything. Let him know how you feel and if that doesn't work then GET YOU SOMEONE ELSE. I know you pretty enough to get someone else hell you got him. Your a women KNOW YOUR ROLE!!!
2006-10-12 07:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by BABYWHITE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be oversexed. Let some time go for him to rebuild.
about any affection problems like cuddling, whenever my man is being stupid about that (they all do it) i first try being very affectionate to him, and if he doesnt get it, i just abstain - he'll then usually come to me craving the affection and hold me :):)
good luck
2006-10-12 07:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the porn store pick things out together watch "movies" have blanket parties in front of your movie suprise him naked at the front door leave dirty messages etc........
2006-10-12 07:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.) you got fat
2.) your breath is bad (and or BO)
3.) he done had you nine ways to sunday and wants
to "see other people" (naked and ... working)
2006-10-12 07:01:21 · answer #9 · answered by phooey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's had enough of the same dish.
2006-10-12 07:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋