OKAY I HAVE BEEN SINGLE NOW FOR 3 1/2 YEARS AND THE LAST RELATIONSHIP I WAS IN I WAS ENGAGED, HE CHEATED ON ME ...SO I LEFT HIM..AND IT SEEMS THAT EVERY GUY I MEET EITHER HAS A WOMAN OR DOESNT WANT TO GET SERIOUS WITH ANYONE AND MOST OF THE TIME THE GUYS WHO HAVE GIRLFRIENDS USUALLY LIE ABOUT IT AND I FIND OUT WHEN SHE CALLS ME...I'M 25 YEARS OLD WITH NO KIDS I WORK AND GO TO SCHOOL , I CONSIDER MYSELF A GOOD WOMAN I JUST GET LONELY SOMETIMES WONDERING WHEN I'LL MEET MY SOUL MATE..AND WHY IS DATING SO HARD NO A DAYS ?
2006-10-12 06:53:56 · 13 answers · asked by Miskateyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess it is where you do your shopping for a boyfriend, you go to the dollar store you get what you paid for.So perhaps you change you looking strategy, I know there is no guarantee, about cheaters, but if you are waiting for Mr right to walk in the door, You will be waiting for a long time. get active and put your self in an area where there is a chance of meeting the right person. Also do not settle for less
2006-10-12 06:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For some reason, love never finds those who look for it. Why do you need a relationship so badly? Sure it gets lonely, but surround yourself with friends and family. I'm sure that you are a wonderful woman, but be happy in your independence. You were with someone for 3.5 years, and although it ended sadly, you know that there is someone or people who will love you. Be happy with yourself and enjoy your life, you're young and will have a wonderful future. Don't stress out wondering "when"...Bob Marly wrote a song called, "No Woman, No Cry", listen to it. When the time is right, and when you least expect it, it will happen.
2006-10-12 06:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We live in a time where to most things are just disposable including relationships and people. The only truth is that believe it or not there are some great finds out there still. But if you are going to get hung up on looks, money, or social status, your going to come up short. Without knowing it at the time, I married for looks and financial needs thinking ah the love will be there. But it didnt turn out that way. Money, looks, Status, they can all go away. What remains is only the person. Hang in there and find a winner.
2006-10-12 07:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by abel g 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just get involved in lots of things other than the bar scene... and make sure you don't waste anymore precious time on a guy you know won't work. thank god you got out of that cheating relationship before you got married and had kids! if you get out of the house enough to meet lots of new people, eventually you will meet the right one :)
2006-10-12 06:59:41 · answer #4 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to just go out and have a good time. You're looking too hard for a "soul mate."
If it's meant to be, you will find him one day.
Personally, I find girls like you scary because you want the commitment even before we get to know each other. I'm not talking about giving up the goods or anything, but if you are attracted to some guy, don't bust out the husband ruler even before you spent some time with him.
Also, when you date, do you chatter non-stop about how your ex cheated on you? Trust me, guys don't want to hear about your ex cheating on you. We feign interest cuz we want to get some.
Lastly, I'm going to apologize for being men, it' wrong to cheat, but we're like zombies out for some brain when it comes to the tang. Please give yourself some time and scope him out before you start dating him.
2006-10-12 07:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your situation is not unique. A lot of guys love to find people like yourself, play them, enjoy the fruits of the chase, and then move on.
There is a soulmate out there for you. Dont let some of the dirtdogs drag you through the mud before you find him.
You dont have to pay for a really sincere relationship with your vagina
2006-10-12 06:59:13 · answer #6 · answered by hls 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I easily have been in a topic the place i for my section made the appointment to get an abortion. i develop into somewhat scared and uncertain of myself. I prayed to God: If it develop into his will that I deliver yet another baby in this international than so be it. I miscarried 2 days later. i'm no longer a professional-lifer b/c it somewhat is a individual selection no longer a team selection. professional-Lifers push women to no longer get an abortion yet later criticize them for having toddlers out of wedlock and according to welfare, and so on!
2016-12-08 13:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by scheiber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno. I am convinced that I am a creep magnet. Values have changed I guess. I think it has to do with whatever social circles we meet these men at. I'm thinking of taking a dance class or volunteering at the local non-kill shelter to get out and meet people. Meeting guys at a bar or through passing ...because he just thinks your hot...has turned out as a dead end for me.
2006-10-12 06:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by Win 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be patient, continue to be a good woman and your Prince will come!
Good luck to you!
2006-10-12 07:00:41 · answer #9 · answered by Pisces 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am pretty sure that person was a lesbian from your description. I'd try it again.
2006-10-12 06:56:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋