2006-10-12 06:41:32 · 18 answers · asked by Sherbert 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I am sure it is possible, but a sensible person would never let it get to that point if they are in love and married to one of them.
2006-10-12 06:49:15 · answer #1 · answered by Leader Desslok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. But it's not possible to explain it to your spouse so don't look there for support. There's a name for this problem since it's so common. It's called adultry. If you don't mind cheating and betraying your spouse that you said you love, then go for it. Also, remember, your feelings are more important than those of others including your spouse whom you love almost as much as you love yourself. So when trying to decide what to do think about what feels good to you and no one else the then decide.
2006-10-12 07:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by kellermanintx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not possible.. when u love someone , he conquers u.. u c noone but him
but sometimes in marriage,as time goes by.. one of the 2 partners doesnt show the other partner the way they feel about him/her.. thats when the other partner goes out lookin for someone else to give them the love they missed
but once ur husband shows u how much he cares, ull just forget about the other one!
the heart can only handle one person not 2
2006-10-12 07:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by green_n6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lie to yourself. You can't be faith full to your husband if you're even thinking to another man. I really don't know even if you can love either of them.
I think you just got bored of your husband.You've forgot him and all the things and the love you had before.That's sad..
Analyze and ask yourself what is that you really want.You can't have 2 things at one time.
2006-10-12 06:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible . and that is when you really have to look deep into yourself to see who you love with your whole heart and if the other that you love is truely love or if its Lust in disquise because that happens all to often and when it does and comes between a marrage it always ends up being the worsed possble thing to happen because not only do you loose the one you truely do love if that is the one your married to . but you also loose the one that you lust and you end up alone and hurting not only yourself but the one you truely love.
2006-10-12 06:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by jazieyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,
I'm in love with my boyfriend,
and I'm in love with Johnny Depp...
oh, waite doesn't count.
I would suppose it is possible, you can't conrtroll who your heart gets attached to, those who say you can't, haven't beed bound by loves rules.
But I would imagine it is not a fun situation. Being is how your heart would be torn into two directions, I have been there, and I know it's not fun. Your heart knows how to take care og itself though, trust it.
But i still do love Johnny Depp...
2006-10-12 06:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by danksprite420 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is possible, but you will loose your love toward your husband...and probably this would lead to divorce. Anyways...Why do you like the other person? Is it because he has something that your husband can't give you or is something that your husband isn't?? I would sujest that you talk to him and tell him how you feel and what do you expect him to do for you. Open yourself up...
2006-10-12 06:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by cassie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truely love someone you want what is best for them not you so 2 at the same time sounds good for you but really bad for them not true love
2006-10-12 06:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure is. It's a tough situation to be in, but you made a promise (a vow) to your spouse that you would respect and treasure that person.
If you act on your love, you'll be breaking your promise.
Does you spouse know?
2006-10-12 06:50:15 · answer #9 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope...tried it once. It didn't work. You see, you don't love your husband anymore and you're pretending you do because it makes loving someone else not your fault.
2006-10-12 06:48:55 · answer #10 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋