I have a crazy story?
I have a boyfriend. I also have a friend that I've grown up with and see him every so often. He too has a girlfriend who he once tried to break up with and then she tried to kill herself. He got back with her. We have always had chemistry/a thing and hooked up throughout our teenage years and when I moved away to college. Saw him recently and he decided to tell me that he was "hopelessly in love" with me. He then whipped out the most beautiful engagement ring I've ever seen. He said he bought it four years ago. I didn't take it, obviously because we both are in a relationship and he didn't exactly propose. Since then he's been kind of distant and not calling me. Last weekend he messagd that he wanted to see me and when I responded he never wrote back! I've called him and no answer. Why would he do that if he loves me like he says. I think about him every day and we have so much history together can't understand why he would be acting like this now. Advice?
2006-10-12 06:32:37 · 17 answers · asked by Mimi 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he is in a jeoparady. In one end he has got a girl friend who may commit suicide if he don't stay with her. On the other end you have a relationship with another guy. Some times he is feeling guilty that he is bringing a problem to your life and trying to get away of you. But as he is very close to you from your childhood he cannot forget you so easily as well. May be this is the case.
2006-10-12 06:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by Suman G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he's been thinking of you as more than just a friend or a hookup and for some time now. If you want this, call him, leave him a message if he doesn't answer, and tell him you are going to be anywhere in particular (I would recommend someplace you two have a history with) and give him a couple of days notice. Tell him you'd just like to see him for a minute or two and that it would mean a lot to you. He'll be there if he cares.
2006-10-12 06:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay Away!!!
If he was a responsible guy he wouldnt be pity dating a suicidal headcase- he should get her a shrink not get her in bed.
If he cared so much about you he would not be dating someone else. If his actions are not totally about you now, how will he be down the road?
It may seem exciting to have such a passionate relationship on the sly, but if you have any interest in keeping your sanity long term, i would look for a guy that knows what he wants.
2006-10-12 06:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you didn't marry the guy because you are in a relationship with someone else right? So why are you worried that he hasn't called you back? My advice would be to have one or the other. It's not fair playing kiddy games to the other people so be honest with yourself and with your boyfriend and move on if it's not him that you are in love with.
2006-10-12 06:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by i have a taste for waffles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tricky one, follow your heart whichever guy it is. Its better to be happy then just gliding along in a relationship with no change.
The one that proposed may be confused, get him to meet up with you and talk about what he really wants. This is one you'll have to decide on your own though, goodluck.
2006-10-12 06:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you need to make sure that he didn't kill himself or anything, Then you need to really sit down and think about what you want. Do you want to try something with him or stay with your current boyfriend. When you've made your decision, make your choice and continue your life.
2006-10-12 06:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe tryy calling him and asking him to meet in a public place so you can discuss things. Myabe he changed his mind and is too embarresed to say. Just be upfront with him.
2006-10-12 06:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by SB's cafe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lOVE ADVICE can't really be given, because you have to do what you feel. And your going to do that no matter what we say. What's wrong with the boyfriend you have now? Why can't you focus on your relationship with him? How would you feel if he was doing that to you? Your not faithfull!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-12 06:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by BABYWHITE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well where is ur relashonship going with ur current boyfriend if no place go for him honey! u immediatly reminded me of the movie "carolina" with julia styles if u have never seen it u pry should, then well deceide but be true to ur self and ur heart
2006-10-12 06:36:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he probably doesn't want to hear you anymore cose you said no to proposal... That could really hurt him... And maybe he is trying to forget you right now....
2006-10-12 06:37:12 · answer #10 · answered by EvanescenceLover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋