if there had been some misunderstanding between bf - gf relation, n during that misunderstanding the girl proves the guy that she is only his n not interested in anyone else, the guy starts taking her for granted n stops contacting her like he earlier used to. now he replies 2 out of her 15 mesgs...what should the girl do? how can things be brought back tolike they were earlier?? means if the boy starts taking the girl for granted...what should the girl do???
2006-10-12 06:30:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop pursuing him and being so available. Also stop reassuring him.
All this started when you assured him he was the one and only and had no competition. Wrong move!!!!!!!!!!!
Go back to the way you were before all this happened.
Like I said, stop calling, texting message, answering all his calls and being available at the drop of a dime.
Find things to do with your friends and family.
It sounds like both of you are young. He is not going to be the first and last BF you will have. So don't take the relationship that seriously.
2006-10-12 06:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by Nija 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point, it's not a question of what should the girl do, it is what should the boy do? This is his problem. She told him she is only interested in him. He started taking her for granted, now it's up to him to make this right for them. She needs to stop writing him. Stop calling him. Stop talking to him. She needs to remind him of what he had. Let him miss her a little. What he remembers what he had and starts calling about 15 times maybe SHE will answer 2 of them. And when he tells her he is sorry and he will not take her for granted anymore then maybe she will have him back. MAYBE.
2006-10-12 06:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by singleagain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how many chances you give a person.....when we are in a relationship we usually know when things aren't right...so if you are in a situation you do not like then you need to get yourself out of it....if he's not acting the same as when the relationship first started...then what makes you think he's going to change now?? he may be losing interest...and when that happens we start to see less and less of that person...because when we are not interested in someone....are actions speak louder then words....so if you are in this type situation i suggest to you..that you just move on don't sit around and dwell on how you could get things back to how they were...because 9 times out of ten it's not going to happen....remember that person has changed on you...and he's changed for a reason.
2006-10-12 07:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would anyone send 15 messages? dam girl take a chill pill. make yourself a little unavailable. You don't have to see any other guys to be unavailable, just go out with the girls. Be busy when he wants you. Play a little hard to get. Men like to chase.
2006-10-12 06:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl sends me 15 messages and cant even spell properly in any of them, I would have also left.
You need to move on, he is gone for good
2006-10-12 06:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 03:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stay distance from him and return the favor of what he does to you. if he notices than he'll ask you and then just tell him how you feel. but he is taking you for granted confront him about it and talk it out. you deserve better treatment and you should ask him to treat you better. im sorry to say but you may just need to leave him. he may come crawling back or he may just shrug it off. gd luck
2006-10-12 06:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, are u leaving 15 messages in one day cuz if so, I wouldn't call you either, that is ridiculous and would make me believe you are not playing with a full deck and lead me to believe that you are psycho...if not, then sit down and talk to him about how u feel...if he wants to be out of the relationship it gives him the opportunity to leave...if he wants to remain in the relationship then he will hopefully change his ways and be more understanding of what you need to be happy in the relationship...cheers
2006-10-12 06:36:41 · answer #8 · answered by Chris W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl should realize that boy is just not that into her anymore and if boy takes girl for granted, say bye bye.
things not able to be brought back- time gone. move on.
2006-10-12 06:34:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl should talk to the boy and express how she feels, and what she need in the relationship.
If he can't meet her needs, she should move on.
2006-10-12 06:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋