My ex blames it on me that were not together cuz i said that i ddint want to b with anyone right now cuz he hurt me and now i want him back and he wants me but he says its my fault were not together when hes the one who broke up with me.so would it be my fault for telling him i dont want to be with anybody when i said that about 4 weeks ago or would it be his fault for beakingup with me
2006-10-12 06:29:45 · 18 answers · asked by reddevil_149699 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you guys are still arguing about who broke up with who, then it doesnt sound like you are ready to get back together. You need to get over the problem first before you try again and it doesnt sound like you are.
2006-10-12 06:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of your faults. You both sound like you are waiting for a hero and waiting for the other to be it. Dangerous game to be playing, even if you don't know you're doing it. If you don't love and respect yourselves, you can't love or respect each other. Do yourselves a favor; at least take some time apart from each other and if you want to continue the relationship in the future, seriously consider some counseling.
2006-10-12 13:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, technically if it goes like you said, you broke it off with him first when you said "You didn't want to be with anyone right now." He was just finalizing it. So it would be your fault. Is this the only thing that is keeping you apart?
2006-10-12 13:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by panda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you left him because he was always hurting you then it's his fault. He is trying to turn the tables on you and don't let him. He knows that he was wrong he's just trying to use your feeling against you. And if he keeps hurting you for whatever reason then you don't need to be with him anyway. Stand your ground. REMEMBER WHAT HE DID IN THE RELATIONSHIP YOUR BOYFRIEND IS A PUNK!!!!!!!!1
2006-10-12 13:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by BABYWHITE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is like watching a child on a rubber band bouncing up and down. Who cares who's fault it is? Just get back together and move on.
2006-10-12 13:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you tell someone that 'you don't want to be with anybody', what do you think the other person is thinking? Sounds to me like you broke it off...it's your fault.
That being said...if you both want to get back together, who gives a sh*t who broke it off the first time! Get over it and get back together.
2006-10-12 13:31:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep you are at fault and I think this pattern will repeat itself all through your life. You are so uptight and have lost the knack of pleasing a man when was the last time you did Oral to completion for him, Anal sex? Outdoor stuff........ I thought so..watch out for that depression it is not far away
2006-10-12 13:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I blame both of you for making me think about this problem
Does it have to be somebody's fault?
2006-10-12 13:31:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's his fault for breaking up with you an being a hole and if he wants to be with you then he will honor your feelings.
2006-10-12 13:35:07 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Drea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would b both of your faults. he probably broke up wth u because u said u didnt u didnt want to b wth anyone. tell him u want him bac.
2006-10-12 13:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by mutt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋