does anybody have anyone from there past that they think about alot,i mean that one person that just took a hold of your heart and never let go,everyone has someone that they remember i ,that person you did wrong and you wish you could go back and say your sorry .please share some of your stories okay
2006-10-12 06:24:04 · 14 answers · asked by dede2772 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
[Y]es read some of my earlier questions. The pain is there and healing takes a long time. I even did say I was sorry for everything but because of many circumstances, the connection is forever lost. We can't live in the past but we can learn a whole lot from it. We can't fantasize about the future too much where we loose hold of today. We take one day at a time in the present even though the past is in our head a lot. Happy Trails to you as you live each day today.
2006-10-12 06:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by [B] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex gf was very outspoken, which I admired, most of the time anyways. We had a sorta rocky relationship and argued frequently because I still wanted to hang out with my friends (I have now known many of them for more than 20 years and I am only 30). She didn't like me spending any time with them, I didn't like that she refused to give them a chance. She always said she hated them despite meeting them once for probably 2 or 3 hours. They really are good people. So it went back and forth, hot and cold, and I'm talking like fires of hell to polar ice cap in terms of the relationship. The last time we talked, it was on the phone and she said, not surprising because she was always one to want the last word, that I never realy loved her but I just thought I did. I don't exactly want to catch up with her, but if I did, I think I'd want to tell her that while I may have read her wrong at times, I know she read me wrong. She either had no idea how much I did care for her or she was just lying to make it easier to walk away. (I choose to lean towards the latter but may never know for sure.)
2006-10-12 13:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i know what you mean... i was with this one kid... hes two years younger than me and everything but the day i met him we started flirting instantly... i mean it just got done raining and we were outside and he pushed me into a soaked bush... i know that don't sound too romantic but as i look back on it now it was so cute... ANyways the next weekend i say him again and he asked my best friend to ask me if id go out with him. I told him i didn't know if i wanted to but deep inside i knew i was going to say yes. Finally after about three hours of him asking me and having my best friend ask me i said yes. So it was around may we started going out and school would be out within a week or two. Anyways i took him out to the house that i always chilled at with my friends on the weekend. After a weekend of getting along with the other kids that lived there he moved in with them. And by that time school was over. So me and my best friend would stay at that house everyday and drink and when i would get drunk i would be so violent with him i would yell and complain about everything he did even though i look at it now and he was so perfect to me. One day my best friend and i left the house for a little and when we came back my boyfriend had cleaned up everything in a room and we would have that room to ourselves. I knew he really cared about me too because he wrote everywhere that he loved me and all kinds of good stuff. Within the next two weeks i drank everynight and yelled at him every night. I think i did it because i didn't think that he would leave me. He broke up with me one night because we really got into a fight and at first i didn't care but after a few hours i thought about and started to cry. I cried every night for like a month straight. I never missed someone so much and i dont know if its becasue the reason we broke up is completely my fault or if i really loved him. I went out with another guy since then and it didn't work... he played me but it doesn't even upset me at all. and even today four months after we broke up i still find myself thinking about him and dreaming about the day we get back together if it would every happen. Just wishing we would get back together is the only thing i can do.
2006-10-12 13:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have several that I wish I had treated better. I was just such a jerk then. Most of the time, my girlfriends would let me do whatever I wanted. Then there was this one, who I was totally into, and I pulled some crap one time and she dropped me like a hot rock. Good for her.
2006-10-12 13:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by John 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know just how you feel, except I was the one that left him when we where in college. It has been about 6 yrs now and I think about him everyday. I found him on blackplanet and he does want to talk to me. So I have to grow up and move on. Because if your important to that person they should at least talk to you or something. Don't waste time day dreaming about someone that doesn't day dream about you. Trust me you'll only end up hurting yourself in the end
2006-10-12 13:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by BABYWHITE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to say that i'm very happy with my fiance. BUT there is one person that i wish i wouldn't have done the way that i did. i left him for a guy that i was rooming with. (It was my female roommate's brother) he did so much for me and so did his family. i dumped him the day that i was supposed to move in with him. he got messed up with drugs again ( i helped him clean up) the relationship with the other guy didn't last but like maybe 2 mths. i was dirty for doing it, but i can't take it back. i have heard that he's back with his ex and that they're going to get married.. so i'm happy to hear that i just wish i had a chance to apologize
2006-10-12 13:31:01 · answer #6 · answered by gardener24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok sweetie , i hear ya its completly natural, im remarried now but well i dated this guy from 7th grade all the way into college like 6 yrs and college just made us different people, but he was my first everything! im married now and so is he, but no u never forget some people, my husband knows about this and he understands , but just never let that hold u back, good luck
2006-10-12 13:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when i was about 13 years old that's when i first fall in love with my baby daddy and i always thinkin about if i could go back in the past to change somethings it would be for us to get married like he wanted to i was young in stupid so we ended up broking up for about 1 year than got back together that's when i wanted to get married but he didn't because he wasn't ready when i was so we broke up for good...but wish i could make things right...
2006-10-12 13:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by Tranita H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually yes, in the 8th grade I was a total sh*it to a new friend...to this day I would love to be able to apologize to her and tell her I am sorry I was such a friggin a*ss
2006-10-12 13:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes I do have someone like that. but i also know that I can not look in the past. i just worry about today and the future.
2006-10-12 13:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋