She acts like she doesnt want to see me. I want to see her. We met over the internet and i we been talking on the phone 4 like 2 mths and now she is starting to avoid my calls or sumthin but everytime i accuse her of something or i get mad at her for something she did i always end up apologizing because she doesnt want to talk to me. what should i do?
2006-10-12 06:17:45 · 16 answers · asked by Michael W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like it's a one way relationship. you need to move on bc it sounds like she already is
2006-10-12 06:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by gardener24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's just not that into you anymore!
It sounds like she's lost interest in the long distance relationship with you. It takes alot to keep something like that going... I have a strange feeling she's moved on but doesn't want to hurt you by telling you the truth. (when all along what she's doing hurts worse I'm sure - backwards thinking, I know)
Anyways... It's time to let go. Quit trying to put effort in something that isn't going to go anywhere.
Call her up and tell her you wish things could have been different, but the two of you just don't have what it takes to make this LD relationship work. Let her go... and wish her the best and hang up.
Now... don't talk to her again. Don't even write her. Hanging onto the communication won't make it any easier. Just do both of you a favor and cut all ties.
Now.. go do something for yourself and get a date with a girl in town or with a girl that is a little closer to your town so you can see eachother more often. :)
Good luck!
2006-10-12 06:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by InnerBeauty28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See it can be both way round as suggested by other people. Either she is not interested in you or she wants to meet u. But the important thing is that u should understand the relationship. U should understand the consequences of forcing her into a relationship. U should talk to her frankly whether she is interested in a relationship or not. It will be hard if she refuses but it is good for both of urs future. A person should never tell lies in a relationship
2006-10-12 06:33:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anshul Mittal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DRAMA! Let her chase you, because it sounds like she doesn't want to be bothered or maybe she enjoys where the relationship is right now. I've been talking with a guy since May and we have yet to see each other; will we? I hope so, I mean if nothing else we developed a wonderful friendship.
2006-10-12 06:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by Diva E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i ain't going to lie i meet my boyfriend july21,2006 on the myspace and we talk for about 2 months before we seen each other maybe the reason why she's like that because you might not like her in person thats the samething me and my boi friend was thinkin and i don't think you should say sorry everytime you think she's cheating because it's not right you want to see her in person and she don't feel the same make her choose either to see you in person or it's over everybody have that shy ness but don't by the madness she act...
2006-10-12 06:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by Tranita H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see her! It hard to be a in a long distance relationship, she is probably tired of only phone calls and what to be with you...in the flesh.
And it kinds sounds that she have maybe moved on.
2006-10-12 06:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely move on and find someone else. She's not worth this type of aggravation. When you get mad at her its for a reason, don't apologize...stick to your guns and don't give in. But she seems like she is a waste of your time.
2006-10-12 06:21:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she has certain insecurities. it could be physical features, but she may also be scared meeting someone over the internet. also, she might be having some personal things to deal with hence the sudden avoidance of calls.
2006-10-12 06:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by nyczclara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assume she isn't who she has claimed to be these last 60 days and consider it over. She obviously isn't interested in meeting you and sorry, but she's not your girlfriend-- she's a stranger you've typed messages to over a computer who longer wants to continue.
2006-10-12 06:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on a find yourself a real gf..she obviously doesnt want a "real" relationship..that entails kissing and touching..maybe she's hiding something from you.
2006-10-12 06:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she is not your girlfriend. You have never even met. Stop being a stalker and leave her alone. Don't ever call her again.
2006-10-12 06:21:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋