my bf broke u w/me. what should I do? Be friends or hate'm
2006-10-12 06:12:49 · 18 answers · asked by Cashew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First and foremost, after the break up your priority is not what to do with him. Its what to do with you. You need to take care of you 1st. Mend your open wounds before figuring out how to treat your ex. That depends on how he is acting by the time you get yourself fixed. If he's mature and can handle talking to you while you're with someone else then be friends. As far as hating him? why? Unless he did something horrible like cheat on you, beat you, or something like that no. Being the one to identify that the 2 of u weren't meant 4 each other might have been a lifesaver. u may thank him later.
2006-10-12 06:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by singleagain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1
2016-05-08 03:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First question is did they do something that would make you hate them? If so then go with that. If not then give yourself some time and just let them know that you still care and are there they need you, AS A FRIEND. If you talk too soon it can just make things difficult for both of you. Say what you want to/need to and then leave it alone. If friendship is in your future then it is, but for right now give yourself a break on the "what if"s. Make sure you are completely at ease with the break up/strong emotions and knowing things won't go back to how they were. Then think about the friendship option.
2006-10-12 06:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being friends is too painful because there's always other feelings lurking in the background.
Hating him will just use up so much of your energy and make you feel bitter.
Why not just accept that its over and remember the happy times you had together. Go out with your friends, enjoy yourself and take the time to discover "you" again.
2006-10-12 06:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just use the time alone for right now. Worry about being friends later when you can handle it.
2006-10-12 06:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just move on?
There was no mesh.
It is better to find out while dating than after marriage or after having children.
Just way it did not work, I must find the person that works for me and I work for them.
Loose the hate...
2006-10-12 06:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he broke up with you, and you dont know why, you should ask him but if you do know why and you guys are on good turms then be friends with him but if it was over something stupid then dont keep thinking you still like him.
2006-10-12 06:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by sissy85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
embrace the hate!
started by drinking too much, then by telling all your firends bad things about him, then perhaps put a brick through his window. When he's seeing someone else, seduce him one night and tell her. log into his email and send his boss a bad message so that he has nothing left and is finally broken
2006-10-12 06:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by Apollo C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that happened to me just a few weeks ago and wut i did was decide to stay friends with him and my friend who is his new girlfriend. but i just act lyk nothing happened and since he moved on so did i.i have a new boyfriend. i mean just think of the positive things that means that u can start with someone else and expierence stuff. i mean i know its hard to just forget but i got through with it and just keep urself occupied so u wont think of the pain.
2006-10-12 06:17:21 · answer #9 · answered by janet556 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u cant be friends with some1 u dated but dont hate him cause u have to put energy into hatin someone and hes obviously not worth it
2006-10-12 06:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋