I am a larger, curvy woman who is bubbly, beautiful and very happy with herself. I was wondering however, are there any men out there who prefer to date larger women? If so, where do you find them?
2006-10-12 06:07:39 · 25 answers · asked by Alys 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on the guy really. What you will find, believe it or not is that most really thin guys tend to go for BBW. Personally I don't really mind myself as long as the person inside is a decent one. I have been with some really fit women that have been ugly inside and some really big women that were beautiful inside. Vice versa too. The important thing to remenber is the old adage of not judging a book by it's cover. There is a site that is a sort of chat room found under the heading of www.swingingheaven.co.uk which has a page on there soley dedicated to BBW and the beauty of this one is that you can make your own room up and chat on a 121 basis if you don't want anyone else to listen in. You can also do webcam on this site too so you can see who you are talking to prior to any meetings you may fix up. Hope this helps.
2006-10-12 06:19:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are definitely men that prefer dating bigger women. However, you shouldn't be happy with being overweight. I prefer dating women who take care of their bodies. It's really not an issue with appearance for me, it's more an issue with personal fitness. I don't want a woman who doesn't care about being healthy. I think most men and women would agree that they want to be with someone who is healthy.
Also when thinking in the long term... would you really want to marry someone who is going to have major health problems down the road due to obesity?
If you are just "meaty" or "thick" then it's not much of an issue. But if you are what would be classified as "obese" or more than 50 pounds overweight then you need to start worrying about your health.
2006-10-12 13:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
The key is to understand that there are different preferences for every man, just like there are for every woman. I'm slim but I prefer my man chunky with a shaved head! so theres always someone for everyone. Just be proud of what you are, and most importantly BE FEMENINE, all men want a woman that is soft on the inside, but fiesty and confident on the outside. Don't be afraid of your femininity and you will soon find yourself attracting men in droves
2006-10-12 16:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
its a pity you were not a young woman in the fiftys and sixtys, because in those days there were plenty of chaps that prefered bigger woman, since those days the magazines and tv and movies have been ramming slim women down the throughts of men so much that they have turned men against big women, now some feel ashamed to be with one just because there not the inn thing, Those perfect models and dollys of the screen are womens worst enemy
2006-10-12 13:39:59 · answer #4 · answered by trucker 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I would prefer to date a curvy woman than a skinny woman, skinny women don't really do it for me, but don't get me wrong I would rather have woman with a bit of meat on them rather than skin and bones.
2006-10-12 13:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by Ben N 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I noticed black men find me very attractive now that I'm heavier. Before when I was skinny I didn't get comments from black men like I do now. I say look into dating out of your race, since other races find a curvy real woman sexy and attractive.
2006-10-12 13:13:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
white men like big women 2
2006-10-12 13:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes there are men who love curvy women and would prefer curvy women. It's mostly about confidence though, and it seems like you have that already : )
2006-10-12 13:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
AMERICA! i recently returned from travelling there and i could not understand why their where so many slim stunning girls who where single there!i asked a few(hotties) this question to which their replies shocked me????????????they where not big enough??????????aparently the guys out there love huge women???????the bigger the better! HOW BIZZARE
2006-10-14 13:38:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I prefer dating someone who is couple of inches shorter (with proportional weight) than me. I like to be the physically stronger partner, but that's me. I am sure there are many guys who wish to be on the other side. I'd say give online dating a try.
2006-10-12 13:12:56 · answer #10 · answered by Existentialist_Guru 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋