Why does god love those who suffer and follow him . I did everything he told pepole to do . And I'm always misable . My family is always being mean to me and hard to me. They yell at me for everything. They tell me to clean the house and they never tells my sister to do anything . She's lazy and get's away with everything. I dont like for who Ia'm . I'm always try to do good and be nice to everybody . Sometimes I dont want to live anymore. The only reason I keep going is my boyfriemd who's always there for me He want's to marry me and want's me to have his kids someday .And the other reason I live is because of my little kitten JJ.It seems like I never do anything right. my sister that she is so perfect. Please give me advice. Why does god want's me to be unhappy . Does he even care? They want me to be like her , but I'm not . PLEASE HELP. I'm going crazy.
2006-10-12 05:55:11 · 13 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Does god hate me.
2006-10-12 06:01:15 · update #1
Why does he want to cause me pain. Sometimes I wonder he does know if I suffer and he cares for me he wouldn't have made me in the first place.
2006-10-12 08:51:46 · update #2
Yours is a very hard question that would take days to answer. God loves you and wants you to love Him more than you love yourself, this world and the things in it. He is not the cause or the source of your problems. God loves you more than you will ever understand and wants the best for you. Life often does not seem fair or good but God knows you and loves you better than anyone. You need to make sure that you belong to Him and that you are one of His children so He can take care of you as His child, not just another one of His creature. Maybe this will help.
Jesus Christ Is the Only Way To Heaven!
In The Holy Bible, “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” John 14:6. He meant “I am the only way to God the Father and to heaven”, “I am the only truth that you need to know.” and “I am the only spiritual life available to mankind.” In other words, “I am the only true and living God.”
All other so-called gods are false gods. They are not real. They do not exist. Satan creates counterfeit gods, religions and faith in them. They appear to be the genuine articles but they are false. They are phony. They are bogus. No other so-called god has the power to forgive, cleanse and remove all your sins from you to get you to heaven. They don't even claim to.
I pray you will believe this and accept the fact that you are a sinner needing to be saved from your sins (“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;” Romans 3:23, The Holy Bible.) and accept the fact that the blood Jesus Christ shed for you at Calvary is the only way you can have your sins forgiven, cleansed and removed and is the only way you can get to heaven. I pray you will acknowledge that you are a sinner and ask Jesus Christ to forgive, cleanse and remove all you sins and accept Him into your heart/life to live for Him the rest of your life. (“But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:” John 1:12, in the Holy Bible.) That is what it means to be born again. (“Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.” John 3:3 in The Holy Bible.) Salvation is a free gift. You cannot work for it. You cannot be good enough to earn it. You must, by faith, receive it as a free gift. (“8For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: 9Not of works, lest any man should boast.”) Ephesians 2:8-9.
God loves you and it is not His will that you perish in hell.
(“The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.” II Peter 3:9 in The Holy bible.)
This is my prayer for you
2006-10-12 06:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by LARRY S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your sister does not actually seem (by your question) to have much to do with this problem, perhaps she would be a friend if you did not view your relationship with her as a who wins type of thing. You do not say much about her but if she is more willing to be sassy about it when asked to do things then they may be giving more work to you because it is easier for them. Being sassy at this point would make it worse for you.
Do you pray each morning?? that would ease the load. Do you talk with your pastor or priest about these feelings. That might help.
Many young people feel just as you say you do, and so it is normal to have these feelings. As you grow older the emotional part of this hard situation will get less. I mean about 20 not at 13 cuz if you are 10 then it will get worse soon. Then better. Many things are happening in your body as it grows into a woman that make things seem worse than they are. Latter this will happen fewer days in the month and when you are 6o they will after a period when they are worse then go away. Talk to your religious leader, and ask for help.
2006-10-12 06:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NHbariton is right. This is about family conflict. And the Bible has countless of cases on conflict. Cain & Abel, Esau & Jacob, Joseph & his brothers, Absalom & Amnon. You can try talking about your grievances to one or both parents. Two, you can consult someone you trust (an adult) in the neighborhood, school, relative and to be a witness to your grievances as you talk to your parent/s.I would like to add a little more on here, but since I am not aware of your family background, I have to stop here. God does care...He gave you JJ and a boyfriend. Here are some scriptures (if you have a Bible) to help you along. Pls try to look them up.
On the topic of when...
When God is silent: Isaiah55:8-9; Psalm40:1-2
When things get unclear: Philippians4:6-7
When in despair; Job10:1-2 Hebrews4:14-16
Psalm139:15-18
On the topic of does
Does God love me? 1John3:1
Does God see my pain? Psalm31:22
Does God care? Psalm56:8
Try to see a school counsellor for help and guidance.
2006-10-12 07:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by royaldukeness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just read your Bible, talk to God as you would talk to a friend and someday you will be able to help someone in your situation because God will bring you through this into something better, just have faith. God is not doing this to you. Psalms 34:19 Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all. Psalms 34: 7 The angel of the Lord encamps around those who fear Him and rescues them. Read Psalms and be encouraged.
2006-10-12 06:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, have I been there! You sound just like me when I was a teenager. God cares about you, but he's not some magical fairy godmother who's going to wave a wand and make your life what you want it to be. You have to have faith in God and work to change your life around. Look into schools away from your family, get a degree and a job, marry your boyfriend and move away!
2006-10-12 06:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by sister steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things could be a lot worse... You may not think so now, but keep going. God may use you to minister to people and families in similar situations. I know some of the troubles I have had over the years were my own fault, but God has been able to use me in new ways because I went through it.
2006-10-12 06:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't give up on God. There will be a lot of people that say that the bible is wrong, but read it and life will be so much more clearer to you. I will be praying for you. Check out www.gbtemple.com. it is a local church for me and it has a sermon under the sermons archive that really came to mind when i read your question/story. when you go into the sermons archive check out the sermon "Friend above all friends". Please let me know if I can help and I will definitely be praying for you and your family.
God will bless you
Just trust in Him and expect blessings
2006-10-12 06:20:40 · answer #7 · answered by Stephen B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have felt the same way at times. I can't really tell you why God tests us so much. All I can tell you is to keep believing and try to remember soon (depending on your age) you can leave your parents home. You have to hold on to the good things. It also never hurts to talk to a counselor about your situation.
2006-10-12 06:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by silverangel_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a question for you to ask your minister/priest directly, or maybe your school counselor.
Jesus lead a self-less life in obedience to His Father.
Boyfriend? OK.
JJ? Sounds cute.
Live for Jesus, know what He wants for you.
And remember, the hard times you are going through now are only temporary, and they will help you to help others in the future.
2006-10-12 06:04:39 · answer #9 · answered by Bob L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some good advice there. Pet your kitten and think of little kids in iraq, who are not as safe as you are there.
Then wait, go to school, geta job and move away with your BF. make a kid, 2 kids and treat them the same, love them the same.
2006-10-12 06:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋