im looking for good advice keep dumb answers we have all been in love before ok im 18 years old i've been in a relatioship with someone fo a while my very first love i met him when i was 16 and he was 26 i no its a big age diff. but we have been together for 2 years and he have cheated on me 3 times and i still went back to him because it was hard and i love him we fought all the time and i quit school because i started failing because i was skiping with him i made that choice but now we decided to stop talking but we do the same thing we did when we were together but he tells me he loves me but he see other females i have never had sex with anyone else but we have been getting in to it lately i guess he dont want to see me period and evey time i call him he want answer the phone im just tierd of him and everything cause i know he is having sex with other women i know were not together but we had decided to stop talking but not to have sex with other people i mean we still havesex
2006-10-12 05:35:46 · 8 answers · asked by ashambra s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, it's time to let go and move one. Either enroll back in school or find a place nearby where you can get your GED. If he loved you he would've made sure you were in school and wouldn't have stood for you dropping out of school. Never put anybody in front of your eduation. Your education (what you learn) will take you places in life and will remain with you always, men, as you see will come and go.
My guess is that he didn't want anything serious with you, but just wanted what you had to offer him(sex) I can feel your pain and your hurt but now it's time to stop hurting yourself. He is way too experienced for you and you don't have to stand for it. It's obvious what he wants from you. Have you met his parents? What do you know about his family? Why would you agree to stop talking with him but still have sex with him? He is going to use you as long as you allow him to. But you can stop it at any time.
You are seeking love and acceptance and this guy can not give it to you. All he can and will give you is sex, heartache and pain. He's probably cheated more than three, you just found out about three. He's neglecting and rejecting you by not answering the phone. How much do you love you? Once you learn to value yourself, you won't allow him to continue to violate your most precious possession. He won't answer your calls, but he wants to have sex with you.......I don't think so! You deserve so much more now go after it and leave him alone. When he calls you, don't answer, if he comes by to see you, don't open the door.....even if you have to cry, then cry, let it all out but stop letting him abuse you.
2006-10-12 05:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by DaddysGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on and you need to do it fast. I realize that you think you love him but he is no good for you. When someone loves you, they don't cause you to drop out of school. They don't encourage you to skip school. He does not love you. He is with you for all the wrong reasons. He is nothing more than a scumbag of a guy taking advantage of an inexperienced kid. You need to get this guy out of your life. A ten year age difference isn't bad when you're 35 and he's 45 but there is no reason for a 26 year old man to be with a 16 year old girl. I have to wonder where you're parents are in all of this. My father would have kicked that guys a** by now. And he would have done it two years ago. YOu are so young. You need to find a guy that you have things in common with. A guy who is going to want to better your life, to see you succeed and be happy.
2006-10-12 06:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by svg7373 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on with your life. Get new friends and start over. Sometimes it is better to be friends than have relationships. Being divorced twice has made me realize that friends are better than having a relationship. I see what everyone that I know is going through. The only thing that I am missing is sex.
2006-10-12 05:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by steve s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I follow what you are saying then you decided not to talk to each other but he tells you he loves you and you still have sex together. Ok here is my advice to you. Leave him he is a loser. Go back to school and get your GED. Stop having sex with idiots.
2006-10-12 05:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him. it was only 2 yrs. I know you love him and all but jesus dont ever talk to this boy ever again. he got what he wanted out of you and now hes moved on. you need to do the same. i mean come on you quit school because of him, what are you thinking?? you've ruined your life to be with someone who doesnt want you. you really think hes not going to have ex with other people, you are one of the dumbest girls i have ever met. honey, move on he is soooo not worth it. Go on with ur life. Hes not worth it. Your better than this.
2006-10-12 05:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl use some common sense. this guy doesn't deserve you and he's a loser to be treating you like that. first of all he's way too old for you but that's besides the point. when you cheat on someone you destroy trust. what is a relationship without trust? nothing, that's what. you need to get rid of this joke of man and move on.
2006-10-12 05:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by WreckinShop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know the great thing about dating young chicks? THEY ARE SOOO gullible!! it's great! Listen toots. all u are to this guy is a convenient piece of young coochie. if u are satisfied with that, more power to u. if u want more than that realize that you would have it already if he felt the same way.
GOT IT??
2006-10-12 05:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to move on from him. He's not worth your time if he's seeing other women. You deserve better for yourself.
2006-10-12 05:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by Red1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋