there is this girl i really like, but she apparently has been saying really nasty stuff about me behing my back. i am more upset than angry. how should i react?
2006-10-12 05:33:09 · 22 answers · asked by luca m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget all about her and ignore her. She's not worth you.
2006-10-12 05:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is saying really bad stuff behind your back shes not worth it. Seriously... if enough people are telling you that she is saying things about you, then you should forget about her. And theres nothing you can really do because if you confront her about the things shes been saying about you she can just deny it.
I think that you should (as much as it may hurt) forget about her and move on--moving on is always the most imporant thing to do and it will make you feel better. Good luck with your situation
2006-10-12 12:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know she has been saying stuff. Who has been telling you this?, first of all I would check out their information because they could be jealous. If you find out it's true then ask her why she is saying these things. She will admire you for having the strength to face up to her and probably end up liking you, if she doesn't already
2006-10-12 13:30:47 · answer #3 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and hate can have very thin boundaries, what are her motives for this ?
Is it because she likes you and you have not been moving at the speed she wants you to and feels rejected ?
Is it because she likes you and she insecure and therfore wants to write you off.
Have you done something to upset her.
Might want to try and find out the motives first, if she cares for you it might actually be worth pursuing her but having a relationship could have its drama.
find out her motives and then work out what to do.
2006-10-12 13:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should confront her..........but don't let yourself get out of control just tell her to back off. don't scared her because she seen like the type of women who makes a big deal out of nothing so if you start yelling she may say you almost hit her. make sure you have someone with you when you confront her and get over her. she just going to cause problem for you. good luck
2006-10-12 12:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're running on ice to begin with. Focus your energy on someone who is capable of liking you in return. This person is ugly and hatelful on the inside and you dont need that. It's a no brainer, move on. Life is too short to be with anyone who doesn't DESERVE you. good luck.
2006-10-12 12:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by singleagain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her and give her a long kiss. Then tell her off and tell her to stop saying nasty things about you. that should get her.
2006-10-12 12:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by steve s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sucks! Don't like her anymore. If she's doing this now, imagine how it will be when you are together. You could never trust her. So...totally ignore her. You are probably giving her a power-trip by liking her.
2006-10-12 12:37:28 · answer #8 · answered by baka_desho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you deserve more than a girl like her. but I can't blame you. can you fight for your feelings for her? better if you tell how she affects you straight to her. by that you can decide what's the best way to deal your feelings for her. your feelings might even change or diminished after you confront her. GOOD luck!
2006-10-12 12:53:56 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carefully that's all may be he don't know that you liked her...will if I'm find out about her what is life,her attitude may be you might change her....good luck body i know lots of girl there out there you could find some one who could love you forever....
2006-10-12 12:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her, and talk to her why she would say these things. Then be open enough with her to say that you are hurt even more because you were interested in her.
2006-10-12 12:35:34 · answer #11 · answered by Brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋