your engage but your finacy its far for you, you never see hem for seven years....
2006-10-12 05:27:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You tell the person you are engaged that you don't like him. But you don't see this guy for seven years? I say it's a lost cause and you shouldn't really give hope and faith to something impossible to accomplish.
2006-10-12 05:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by SunniGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I noticed none of the other answers considered that it might be an arranged marriage..... so I will ask, is the reason you havent seen your fiance' for 7 years because it is some sort of an arranged marriage? Are you unable (due to any of your beliefs) to break off the egagement?
If you are unable to break the engagement, tell the man you are in love with that you are sorry but you are engaged and let that be the end of it. (Not that I agree with arranged marriages)
If you ARE able to break the engagement, do so... IMMEDIATELY. It is unfair to the man you are engaged to, to keep him in the dark that you arent in love with him.
If you are NOT in an arranged marriage and youve been engaged but STILL have not seen the man youre engaged to for 7yrs, I have to wonder WHY... are they in an armed forces unit or something? Did you agree to marry him because you loved him and now that love has disappeared?
Ask yourself this: Are you truly in love with man #2 or is it because man #1 isnt present that you are drawn to man #2?
Good Luck, its a tough situation.
2006-10-12 13:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be engaged to someone you haven't seen in seven years? That's none of my business, but I think you need to ask yourself why you've chosen to continue an engagement with someone you haven't even SEEN in so many years. Maybe it's time to think about breaking your engagement - especially since you seem to be interested in someone else.
If I were you, I would just explain your engagement situation to the guy you're seeing. Just be honest with him. But, either way, you need to settle the engagement issue, since you're now dealing with both the man you're engaged to and the interest of this new guy. Good luck with this.
2006-10-12 12:42:12 · answer #3 · answered by loveblue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask you how it is you were able to fall in love with someone else while engaged. When you vow to marry someone that means you want to spend the rest of you life with them, and no one else on Earth even compares to them. How did you let yourself fall in love with another? What would I do about this....I would tell the man that loves me and asked me to marry him that I am not someone that deserves him. Explain your situation to him, and break his heart now, before he finds out on his own and is really. hurt.
2006-10-12 12:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that guy your in love with should be your fiance...if not then why did you say yes when he preposed to you????? thats seriously F*cked up if youre just going to break someone heart like that. dont toy with peoples emotions you never know when someone could be on the brink of killing themselves and you just happen to be the last straw...then you have to live with a guilty concious...i suggest you figure out your feelings about what and remember say you got with that new guy....later down the line he could find someone else to be with or turn out to be abusive or a complete *******.. look at what you have now and ask yourself if your willing to risk it all..
2006-10-12 12:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by ABC123 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well obviously you need to break off the engagement and quit stringing along a guy who you will divorce in a few months.
2006-10-12 12:37:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't get married. If you loved your fiance', you wouldn't have feelings for someone else. Don't set a marriage up to fail
2006-10-12 12:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by cjliveyer1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait..u havent seen ur fiance in 7 years? and u fell in love with someone else? then go with the new person, i dont think ur finace is coming back lol
2006-10-12 12:35:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your hubbie to be the truth and tell the other guy how you feel
2006-10-12 12:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you quit screwing with people's emotions and learn some spelling and grammar....
2006-10-12 12:31:39 · answer #10 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋