i've been mates with a guy for years but now i have started to have feelings for him ... do i make a move or should i just keep him as a friend incase i lose him ...?!
2006-10-12 05:19:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just stay mates
2006-10-12 05:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is always a difficult one to deal with.
I was mates with a guy that then started to become more than friends but it was really complicated as i already had someone.
The thing is you need to see how he feels without putting your friendship at risk. So i would suggest not to make a move just yet but see where your friendship takes you back.
Good Luck.
2006-10-12 05:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At Christmas I started dating a guy I had been friends with for years, and whilst it lasted it was brilliant, but now its ended it has become a bit weird, because we're closer than friends, but aren't a couple. However, I wouldn't change a thing and I'm glad we started going out otherwise I'd have always wondered "what if .....? I think the important thing is making sure you are both happy, and only the two of you know how that is going to happen. So good luck with whatever you decide to do, and I hope you are happy whatever happens.
2006-10-12 05:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by Leggy_Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it!!.you can be lovers and friends. he might just be the one and if he turns you off well atleast you know were you stand.if he really is your friends you'l stay that way and move on. you wont lose him guys are ok we girls are the ones who have a problem,try it than wondering what might have been. if you cant confront him then SNAP OUT OF IT!!!
good luck. whatever the case stay tough!
2006-10-12 06:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by ganja 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your move means invite him to bed? LOL
How about talk to him about this? How about ask him how he feels, and tell him how you feel and see what's really there.
Or, you could say nothing, keep your feelings to yourself for 2-3 months and see if the infatuation burns off.
2006-10-12 05:23:09 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, but make sure he feels the same way as u do or maybe you will lose your friendship..just be honest with him and you never know he might be thinking the same thing as you..good luck and let us know what happens.
2006-10-12 05:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥Squirrel ♥♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Up to you but once you cross the line if it doesn't work the chances are you have lost a mate.
2006-10-12 06:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and get info from friends about how he really see's you and feels about you first, then if he feels the same way then go for it, if he see's you as just a friend you'll know where you stand !.
2006-10-12 05:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Blues 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him no otherwise u are guna get hurt. just tell him how u feel and if he feels the same then bingo! but if he dosent then just tell him u didnt no wot to do and u were scared. if he is a real friend he should understand!
2006-10-12 05:27:10 · answer #9 · answered by [<3] ellie [<3] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it girl, you will never know otherwise and always wonder " what If "
You have got nothing to loose because if you are good friends then he will still be your friend whatever, Trust me Hun.
Good luck. x.
2006-10-12 05:32:00 · answer #10 · answered by iain xx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋