ive been having dreams now for about 3 months that all include my cousin who died 7 years ago sometimes i have the same dream were she picks me up from school ( theres a a few year age gap) and walks me home and we talk about stuff thats happend (since she died) and she asks about our gran and the rest of the family then when we get to the end of my street she tells me that she doesn't want to upset my mum so she goes and i wake up but i actually feel asthough im there and im actually walking with her and i always end up feeling upset because it makes me think of her more and we were very close. The other dreams dont seem to hapen as often this hapens often any ideas why i keep dreaming about her or what my dream means?? thanks.
2006-10-12 05:13:57 · 24 answers · asked by averagegirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It simply means you miss her and the closeness you shared
2006-10-12 05:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by rickjfico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 02:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the way your sub-conscience mind works out that gap in your life. Even though you may have accepted your loss your sub-conscience hasn't figure out how to resolve it. In time, these dreams will subside and you will dream about waking up on a beach in the tropics sipping Mai Tai's.
This may seem a little strange, but I went through the same thing when I had to put my first cat to sleep. She was extremely intelligent and was never more than 10 feet from me when I was home. She would cuddle with me when I went to bed and greet me every day when I got home from work. I had very vivid dreams of her after she was gone and they seemed so real that a few times I woke up crying with my other two cats looking at me like "You OK dad?". The last time it happened it had been three years. Guess I miss her more than I thought. She WAS my very first cat.
Give yourself a little more time to get your cousin's loss resolved. It can take a long time when you're close to begin with!
2006-10-12 05:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by Coo coo achoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that someone that has pass can come to you in your dreams. She comes to you because you two were very close. She wants you to know that she is OK and that she will always watch over you. I am a Christian, and tell you this because I told my mom and she did not believe me. One day I was laying on the couch and had a horrible stomach pain, I felt my fathers hand on me and heard in my mind, you will be OK, he rubbed my arm and I knew it was him because all his life he had worked in construction. He had big hands and were not smooth, and the other thing was, there was no one else in my house. I know he is my guardian angel. I talk to him, mentally, he doesn't respond, but somehow I get the answer that I'm looking for in my head. Many people don't believe but I do. That is why I posted a dream that I had here, and did get the complete and total answer. The answer that I did not want to admit to myself, but someone else brought it out. Be happy for those dreams you have, you must have a good soul. May God Bless you.
2006-10-12 05:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are dreaming about her because you miss her. It is a common type dream.
I believe that sometimes the dead come to us in dreams because they have information we need. My husband died almost a year ago but every once in a while he comes to me in my dreams wearing a white suit and a hawiian shirt and we are always in this outdoor cafe. The last time he brought me a ring in the dream. Two weeks later my boyfriend gave me a ring.
I know that this dream upsets you because you miss your cousin but maybe she misses you too. That might be why you dream of her.
The thing to remember is that dreams are symobolic. If you find the dream unsettling, take it apart. Look at each piece. Why does she not want to upset your mom? What is going on with your mom? She asks about your Gramma. Why?
Some dreams do not reveal thier secrets. Some dreams are just your brain's way of dealing with problems while you sleep.
I keep a dream diary because it helps me understand my dreams and helps me record them clearly for later study. If you feel the urge, you should really do the same.
2006-10-12 05:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by Onegoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it means you miss her. Are you going through someting right now? Something maybe you think she would be the one who would understand. I know it may be upsetting, but really, enjoy it. Who's to say there's no truth behind what you see in your dreams.
I was crazy in love with a guy when I was 20 years old. We went together for several months. We ended up breaking up and shortly after he was killed in a car wreck. I was devistated.
I didn't dream about him for about 5 years, and then I started dreaming about him all the time. We would take walks and talk, and catch up on things going on in my life. I had the dream for about a year, and it was so sweet and so painfull.
After about a year I dreamed one day we were sitting on the porch of my house and it started getting dark. He turned to me and said it had been wonderful spending time with me, and that it was time for him to go, I didn't need him anymore. I was so upset when I woke up, but I figured I must have been dreaming of him for some reason, I guess to get me through something. Anyway, I've never dreamed of him since, but i still remember very clearly the dreams I have of him, things we talked about and places we went. Sounds crazy, but it really gave me some closure. Maybe thats what you need.
2006-10-12 05:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by Kathleen M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is an recurring dream, that is unresolved issue.
Dead cousin = someone you trust.
IN your case, you projected your dead cousin as someone you trust . However, that only symbolizs some guilt conscience of yours about upset your mom. It may be her in your dream. However, that is really your conscience. Your subconscious mind will find anyone to tell you some message. There may be some issues about your family. Having your cousin in dream is a way to vent out and symbolize in dream
2006-10-12 10:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dream you are having is the way she is connected with you from heaven. I had a dream like this after we had a lost in the family and my loved one was touching my face and letting me know everything was okay and that she was fine. When i woke up i was crying , but it felt good because i felt she was saying " I'm OKay". In a way i think we all need these dreams to let family know we are ok. Your cousin was in this dream to give you comfort and love. I hope you have many more wonderful reunions.
2006-10-12 05:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by Lindsay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know if your cousin and mom had any issues between them that were unresolved? You said that your cousin stops when she gets to the end of your street because she doesn't want to upset your mom so maybe it's a channel from you cousin to you to deliver a message to your mom that maybe the cousin loved your mom and may have never had the chance to tell her. Try talking to your mom about any stories she may have of your cousin that you don't know about and see what happens from there. I'd really love to know the outcome if you care to share it with me.
2006-10-12 06:02:24 · answer #9 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am a firm believer of spirituality. I believe sometimes our loved ones come thorugh our dreams to let us know that they are watching us and that they care. Sometimes the same dream will be in a setting that you once enjoyed together. Don't get spooked out, alot of people wish they could get experiences like that...enjoy the memory and the moment
2006-10-12 05:20:09 · answer #10 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personaly think it's you cousin coming to see you to let you know that she ok and se misses you all and is watching over everyone. She comes to you because you two were close and she feels safe talking to you so dont feel sad, do talk about her to your mom and the rest of the family and tell them what you have dremnt and what your cousin has said.
2006-10-12 05:20:30 · answer #11 · answered by Mrs. D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋